habibatammar wrote:

after doing the 25 day challenge i got back with my ex and we had a decent relationship for the past month, he went on a vacation with his friends and he asked me to give him space during his vacation. he asked me not contact him. he said we will contact me as soon as he gets back home.
i understand he is taking advantage of me, he wants to have a relationship with me at times when its convenient to him.  i dont want such a relationship, i want to show him that its not ok for him to cut contact with me whenever he wants and call me whenever he feels like it. im not a booty call!!
please help me aligin!! how can i use the LOA in my favor!
for the past 3 months i have been doing nothing but visualization and scripting, its too much work! shall i let it go? shall i give up?
my mind is blocked and i cant think straight, alot of negative thoughts are coming to me.
please help

P.s it may come to you that i m chasing him thats why he is asking for space, but i swear since we got back i only reply to his msgs and calls, i dont call at all and even if i sent a msg i make sure that i dont sent two msgs in a row

Chasing doesn't necessarily have to mean the physical sense it can be spiritually such as the vibe you have. People can sense it feel it. If you worry about something consistently with a ton of energy odds are you are attracting it as how you are feeling gets projected out there. So in your case I've been a booty call as well. I do see how I attracted it. In my case I didn't love myself enough to stop it and allowed it. Kudos for you to realize that you don't deserve this that is the first step. Second I would give him space . Seriously time and space are such huge helpers. Reason is you need to just work on removing the doubt and worry. This can be done by working on self love as self love helps with a lot of resistance i recommend  "Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It" on amazon . Helped me love myself and because I was so focused on all that it helped remove resistance so when I did visualize or script I didn't have desperation. I didn't need him which is where you want to be not that you don't love or want them they just aren't your source of complete happiness. If you want to also do more meditations on YouTube to help with beliefs and things try Agnes Vivarelli she has a lot and those can help you as well. Most importantly give him space , focus on you and really with the intention set that's all that needs to happen . Only visualize and script etc if you want to and you feel good.