Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Question aboout no contact

**Posted by mbelieve13** 2/22/2018 6:48 pm

Recently JANUARY ninth i broke up with my bf, at last he said he didnt love me as much as i did. He wsnted tonbe in his space more alone and that he didnt wsnt me for to waste time with him waiting for him to change. i would constantly make myself available for him, too neeedy..... a lot. N this month a half i contacted him numerous time until a month a go.... we saw each other and he told me i met him at a very strange time in jis life and wanted to be alone. Nobody ask 4 no contact and someday We could be friends he said.... Well i discovered LOA and been happy, going to pshycologist and súper happy. He contacted me a week ago in valentines day he sent me a funny thing he said in a chat, but i didnt andwer. I Dont know if i did wrong in LOa ir what sufdenly i have been seeing a lo t of his car in streets, thinking happy things, i know he loves me and LOa works

**Posted by Stacey** 2/24/2018 6:22 pm

This breakup is still fresh, so before I give you any advice I feel that it is in your best interest that you take some time to heal, allow yourself to feel the way you do for a little while and work on yourself from there.

As for no contact, that itself isn't applicable to every situation. It's usually a suggestion for those who constantly inundate a person with unwanted contact. If you feel like you're in that type of situation, no contact is for you. If you are able to converse with him without what I mentioned, disregard it.

You haven't done anything wrong, it's just a new breakup so you need time to get over the initial hurt before you set out to manifest a new relationship with him.