excalibar wrote:

I still have a very hard time living in the wish fulfilled for my desired relationship and I don’t quite understand how to do it. I get mixed up over knowing and feeling like happiness and what not. They sound the same to me so I’m very confused and frustrated. I can visualize and I get happy emotions but it sounds like that isn’t what living in the end... can someone please help me learn this so I can apply it and make this easy?

Update:
So I asked myself what I would feel if my crush was my boyfriend and it’s:
-calm
-happy
-it feels natural (the way Neville talks about)
-safe
-satisfied
-gratitude
-joy

Is this living in the wish fulfilled? If not than please explain so I understand how to do it. Thank you.

Also, Neville says to assume the state of attitude that that would be yours were you already in possession of the thing desired. How does one do that?

Oh and, is feeling the wish fulfilled feeling that what I want is already fact? Do I visualize until I get to the point?where I feel like it’s real and I believe it?
 

Last edited by excalibar (12/08/2018 8:28 pm)