Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Help me get rid my bitter feeling to my ex's girlfriend.

**Posted by renyu** 9/13/2018 9:54 pm

fizzy wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I'd tell him, if it were me, that I'm getting on with my own life and future and if he's single in the future and I am too then we could start thinking about a new relationship.

Then I'd do the Neville stuff, get on with life and take good care of myself.
I think this is excellent advice. And by following what Neville teaches, you can and will manifest a relationship with him.

and definitely will do this!!

**Posted by renyu** 9/14/2018 1:36 am

I told him i want to move on, free, and get on with my life..
and guess what?

he said "no,"
"my attention, time, and treatment will stay the same"
"i will still always be there for you"
"if you dogde me, i will still chase you"

i said to him i dont want to be his side chick and he said
"who said you're side chick? im prioritize you even more"
but i still reject him, i said i dont want his "yes/no", i just wanted him to know my decision..

honestly im happy he said all that.. but im being stubborn to reject him..
i..do things right, right?

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 9/14/2018 1:38 am

Well done you!

**Posted by renyu** 9/14/2018 1:56 am

Thanks! i feel like a big boulder just off my shoulder :DDD

what should i do if he tried to get close or contacting me?

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 9/14/2018 3:28 am

renyu wrote:
Thanks! i feel like a big boulder just off my shoulder :DDD

what should i do if he tried to get close or contacting me?

Keep repeating it. That you are only interested in a proper relationship with him and to come back when he can offer that.

**Posted by Aquilina** 9/14/2018 8:33 am

Well done! Yes, keep your standard high of the way you expect people to treat you, do all the other LOA stuff, and he will conform to it. Recently I have been thinking something similar.

My SP, even though we are talking, it's minimal and sometimes I feel like I'm forcing it or I'm the one asking all the questions and initiating conversation. I thought f*** this, I don't want to be his friend or someone that's waiting around to talk to him, that's always available to him, so I'm not going to act like it. I expect better from him because I am better than that, he would be priveliged to have my attention, I am and I'm not compromising on valuing myself and chasing him. So I think next I will go silent for a while and just not answer him next time and in the mean time keep working on myself and the outcome I want, living my life to the fullest, enjoying as much as possible, celebrating life, and the dynamic will change and he will be chasing instead.

I don't know if this is something you can relate to, but sometimes I feel angry, frustrated or bitter about this kind of behaviour from others, but he is only responding to the energy I am projecting, so then I am only being angry at myself. Forgive self for not having already arrived at the destination...we are learning, we are on the path and will get there :D

Stay strong, and keep going :D see yourself as you want him to see you.

Last edited by Aquilina (9/14/2018 8:44 am)