cleo wrote:

Hi Fizzy,

I saw him again today but we both seemed to avoid each other subsconsiculy, so there was no interaction. Thhere's a situation here. My person seems to be specifically uncomfortable around a guy am friends with (this friend is comes across as dominating but goes out of way to be nice to me, especially around my person). So, today I didnt speak to that friend to make my person comfrtable. I have also ditched a meetup at that friends place today. I have heard John Kironde saying that the state of love makes you behave in a manner that the SP would like but somehow i feel guilty of trying to buy my person's love. .Did I do the right thing?

If you are living in the end of a happy relationship with this person, you shouldn’t have to do things to try and get this person to like you more. If you are friends with the dominating guy and you enjoy your friendship with him, there’s no reason to stop being friends with him. A reality exists where you have a relationship with your person and are also friends with the other guy and everything is fine. I’m assuming that’s the reality you’d prefer to be in? If so, don’t stop being friends with that guy and don’t feel like you need to do certain things to get this person to like you. If you are living in the end, you ALREADY have him. You already have your relationship with him and don’t have to change anything about your life in order to get something you already have.

cleo wrote:

I completely agree. Thank you for the clarification. Also, I am unable to visualize him for the past week. Like, I am unable to recreate the same feelings when we first met. Is consistent visualization important?

Visualization is just there to help you get into the feeling of already having your desire. The act of visualization itself isn’t important, but getting into the feeling of having your desire is important. Especially since you want a relationship with a specific guy. You want to be able to find what it feels like to be with HIM, instead of just what it feels like to be in a relationship. If you are only consistently in the feeling of being in a relationship, you might manifest a completely different guy being interested in you. As to why you can’t recreate the feelings, I’m not sure why that is. Maybe try a different visualization? All you need is to visualize a scene that implies that you and him are together, and feel the feelings that go along with it.