Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Question about staying positive

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 3/19/2018 2:44 pm

Hi everyone,
I have been working to stay positive and live as if I already have my specific person in my life but the last few times I have met him in person he has been a bit less than friendly. Anyway, I can picture us being together but then if I have a time that I see him and he doesn’t seem happy to see me I get down on myself. How do you stay positive in that type of situation? Should I try to avoid him for a little while and visualize him being happy to see me and allow those feelings to be in the forefront of my mind before I see him again?

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 3/21/2018 6:56 am

Thank you for your reply! I don’t have to see him but he works in a place that I would often frequent, so if I want to avoid him I can just stop going there for awhile. Otherwise I don’t see him very often.

**Posted by excalibar** 3/21/2018 9:06 am

I agree so much! Send love to him as well and DON'T forget SELF LOVE!

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 3/22/2018 6:54 am

Thank you everyone! I think I will take some time and keep my distance a little bit, while still continuing with my visualizations and work on self love. I think I will wait to go into his workplace until I feel more calm and positive about the idea. 🙂

**Posted by Sanshi** 3/22/2018 7:29 am

Why do you even want to go there?

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 3/22/2018 7:31 am

Sanshi wrote:
Why do you even want to go there?

It’s a fairly large retail establishment that I have always gone to regularly.

**Posted by Sanshi** 3/22/2018 10:32 am

LotsOfLove wrote:
Sanshi wrote:
Why do you even want to go there?

It’s a fairly large retail establishment that I have always gone to regularly.

Okay, I see. But make sure then to do it just because you want to go there without having any intentions about him or hopes about what could happen. That mostly ends in disappointment. And be honest to yourself about it. I know that from myself. I tell myself long enough that I do something just because I want to (while I have hopes about it going a certain way and fear that it won't go that way) and then I end up feeling down unnecessarily. Hasn't happen in a long while though, but it can happen easily, especially when another person is involved.

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 4/01/2018 7:03 pm

Sanshi wrote:
LotsOfLove wrote:
Sanshi wrote:
Why do you even want to go there?

It’s a fairly large retail establishment that I have always gone to regularly.
Okay, I see. But make sure then to do it just because you want to go there without having any intentions about him or hopes about what could happen. That mostly ends in disappointment. And be honest to yourself about it. I know that from myself. I tell myself long enough that I do something just because I want to (while I have hopes about it going a certain way and fear that it won't go that way) and then I end up feeling down unnecessarily. Hasn't happen in a long while though, but it can happen easily, especially when another person is involved.

That makes a lot of sense. I guess often when I go there I have hopes of seeing him while I’m there and that can end in disappointment for me more often than not.

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 4/02/2018 8:23 am

So I ended up seeing my SP somewhere else yesterday (at a place he hasn’t gone in months). I feel like it was a positive thing that he came to this event but he was with his current significant other and he seemed like he was doing all he could do avoid me - he always had his back to me, etc etc. I have been doing a lot better lately with feeling good about myself and him, enjoying my visualizations, etc so I was kind of disappointed that he dodn’t respond more positively.

Any thoughts? I know I can’t read his mind and maybe he is feeling more attracted to me all the time and I just don’t see it yet, but it’s hard to feel like I’m doing so well with everything and then have this kind of reaction from him...