Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Overthinking

**Posted by Dan2015** 11/25/2017 11:34 pm

One observation I’ve made on this forum is. We(including me) overthink things way too much

“What do I do if they text me”? “What do I do if I see them”? And so much more random overthinking. The sucky thing is. Overthinking leads to fear,worrying, doubt and so much other negative feelings. And it basically puts our manifestation on hold

Loa is a great thing. But I feel like we overthink stuff too much. It’s not so much loa that causes us to overthink. It’s that we are still trying to control things. Sometimes we have to stop overthinking and asking what we should/would do in certain situations and just let our natural instincts take over

It’s not with fearing,worrying,doubting,etc. and it’s funny a lot of us on here, don’t even have our desires anyway. So what do we have to lose? To stop overthinking?

My best success with loa comes when I just go with the flow. Letting go(not on desires. But the fear and doubt and worry) also add in more self love(can you ever love yourself too much? So it doesn’t hurt). Whether it’s with affirmations, meditations,etc

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 11/26/2017 12:47 am

Agreed now I strive towards inner peace because I know everything else follows

**Posted by sweetlove1990** 11/26/2017 1:42 am

I was thinking of making a post about this topic LOL you beat me! But agreed, I am not sure how old many people on here are but I feel sometimes we (I've done it before. Not on here but when id watch certain YouTubers) become dependent on the forum and don't really use common sense when it comes to certain things like what they should say to their love.. I think it's important to understand that when we project fear and doubt we get more back which is why a lot of the posts have similar answers that match the OP "that's what I fear too" I even saw someone comment on someone's post about them being lonely and not having self esteem. Things like that. Like AbeHicks says you can't tune into 98.8 and expect to hear what's on 103.5.

Another thing about self love, I think we should realize that self love is about taking action too when you notice something is bringing you down whether it be this forum or whatever else you should love yourself enough to remove yourself for a little while as much as I like helping people I just can't do with constant complaining and fearful overthinking so I think it's best for me to just read success stories and continue doing what's making me happy I've had success but there's only so much one can take when trying to help others.