Amazing setback, took the wind out of my sails!

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Posted by PrettyFlamingo
6/24/2016 5:42 pm 		#1

http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=3250

I've copied a link to my last thread.  The person in question - I have as I said sort of "tracked" him on a form of social media.  This isn't facebook, Twitter, Instagram or any of that but a sports interactive site.  I'm on it as a lurker rather than a participant, as a couple of my friends and former workmates are, and I often comment on their activities.  With this guy, I have looked at what he's been up to, and clicked, occasionally (very occasionally) on the "kudos" button which is similar to like on Facebook - probably a maximum of five times.  I've never contacted him or posted or anything.  I was curious to see what he was doing and thought that if he saw the clicks, he might be curious too.  Now, I see he has made his account private which you have to request to follow - and which I am not going to do - to avoid being told no or thought of as a bunny boiler. I got that shocked feeling inside when I realised what he'd done.  My first thought - he's done this to stop me reading his posts.  Second thought - how the hell am I ever going to meet up with him?  Third thought - forget about him - I have the "looking in a shop window at something you can't afford" feeling now. 

I was once trying to attract someone back and I couldn't do the visualising about that person, because I felt I couldn't bear imagining something I couldn't have.  That, of course, failed.  I feel a bit the same now - though until I saw the "request to follow" I would happily RS/visualise this guy I am writing about today, now I don't feel I can.

Aarrgghh!!!



 

Last edited by PrettyFlamingo (6/24/2016 5:48 pm)

Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 
Posted by Sanshi
6/24/2016 5:48 pm 		#2

Did you already forget that you are the creator of your reality?

"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
 
Posted by PrettyFlamingo
6/24/2016 6:13 pm 		#3

Sanshi wrote:

Did you already forget that you are the creator of your reality?

I gave up once before (years ago, had never heard of LoA then) on any pursuit of this guy. 

Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 
Posted by PrettyFlamingo
5/25/2017 10:37 am 		#4

I've resurrected this, because today is this guy's birthday. 

I do want to try to connect, but it has been such a while now, as you see from the original post, he changed his account settings. I met up with him in March 2015 and chatted, and though I didn't get contact details I did contact other people who knew him, but nothing transpired. I really did feel very positive at that time that something would happen, and when it didn't, I felt "meh". 

So I just got on with life and let this fizzle. 

I've had success in connecting with other people (one of whom is an actual ex - none of the others are including this one) - so what is the issue with this guy??

Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 


 
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