VeronicaAdmin wrote:

Thank you for taking the time to explain everything so openly. I can see how much you’ve been holding in — and how deeply frustrated and tired you feel from trying to find solutions that don’t seem to stick. It’s completely understandable that your trust has been shaken after so many disappointments, and I want you to know I genuinely hear you. You’ve expressed yourself clearly, and that honesty matters. I do want to gently ask that you please don’t delete your posts. When posts are removed, it breaks the thread and makes it impossible for others to follow the conversation or benefit from the support being shared. The unlimited coaching board is meant to help everyone learn and grow together — so even if the post feels personal, your experience can actually help others who are going through the same thing. As for your message, you’re right — being stuck in fight-or-flight isn’t something you can simply think your way out of, especially when it’s been triggered repeatedly by financial pressure and disappointment. That’s why my suggestion to pause the manifestation techniques for a moment and focus on rebuilding stability wasn’t meant to dismiss your situation — it’s meant to help your nervous system finally stop running on emergency energy. Once we can get you to that calmer baseline, it becomes much easier to re-engage the manifesting tools and actually see them work. So for now, let’s focus on helping you feel safe, steady, and a little more in control day by day. Then we can build the next steps for the money flow from there.

And yes — you’re more than welcome to share what you manifested privately; I’d love to hear about it.

With care,
Veronica ✨

Veronica,

When you mentioned rebuilding trust to me, it’s akin to rebuilding something after a fire destroys it. Basically the disappointment that occurs from doing everything correctly is the spark that sets that fire which then grows and begins consuming everything in its path. Basically that fire is the emotions of anger, disappointment, and feeling like you’ve been betrayed. When someone makes a careless and insensitive remark, such as “ it wasn’t meant to be” or “there’s something better” is gasoline that just fans the flames instead of putting them out. It just shows how damaging a person’s choice of words can be. So basically the trust is that building which is destroyed by the 5 alarm fire of disappointment. Then of course, the aftermath of disappointment is a lot of resentment, wondering what it could’ve been like Had you actually gotten your desire. When it happens many times in your life such as getting stabbed in the back by someone you thought you could trust like in my case, the universe, or you get cheated out of a major win that would have you set financially for life or even a major business deal that would have you set for life. And of course people who waste your time for all the wrong reasons which then causes financial collapse. When it happens over and over and over and over again, it makes rebuilding a much longer task because it makes you wonder how many more times itll be violated, hence the reason my brain is stuck in fight or flight.

The talk about timing and perfect timing is also perceived as a careless remark because it makes me wonder how many years in my life I’m going to lose before I finally getting that manifestation and if I’m going to get to thoroughly enjoy it while I’m still on this planet.

There was actually a couple of coaches that had good reviews and stuff like that and I was going to work with them, but as soon as they made that careless remark implying that I’m a stupid idiot and gaslighting me when I was genuinely interested in figuring out where I went wrong, it instantly ruined any chance of doing business with them. And that’s another reason why I hired you because you’re not like that and at least you know how to use a good choice of words.

So you can see the choice of words can be very damaging, which is why people in society need to use them very carefully, but don’t.

Trust is like a building, it can burn down in a matter of seconds from the fire of disappointment and careless remarks. And it could be even increasingly difficult to erase those remarks from your memory when it’s happened so many times. And when it’s that badly damaged, the first thing that gets on your mind is “ How do I know this won’t happen again???”

If you built something only for it to be burned down and you had to keep rebuilding over and over and over again, would that not drive you crazy and make you so furious and demand drastic changes. Yes it would! In my case its finances and trust thats been repeatedly violated over the years.

Then there is the old saying “if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is” and I found that out the hard way many times. Too many things in life are indeed too good to be true!

It has taken me years to come to terms that I am permanently disabled (developmentally) but that is no excuse for not getting to live the life that I want and for people to be so rude and cruel. If anyone else can be rich and abundant and live the life they want then so can I. That is not even REMOTELY up for debate or discussion! And it goes to show that even the slightest careless remark or choice of words is the spark to start that fire of disappointment, thus burning trust to the ground and creating anger and resentment. And there’s people in my life who have done that and as a result, I will never speak to them again, ever.

And I apologize for deleting the other posts I felt like I was going nuts when I made them just because of that burning desire to manifest that life of abundance. It eventually takes over you and then you feel like you blackout emotionally.

Here’s the bottom line:

When you’ve made clear to the universe, what it is you really want desire wise and what your dreams are and you’ve done everything properly visualization stepping into the version of yourself that already has it, etc. etc., there’s no conceivable justification for it not happening, whether it’s meant to be or not and then causing that kind of disappointment thus violating your trust just like there’s no justification for any kind of careless and insensitive remarks or choice of words. As I said before life is too short not to get to enjoy things in life, such as the desires you want to manifest.

VeronicaAdmin wrote:

I understand what you’re saying about trust feeling like a building that keeps burning down. That’s a powerful image — and it’s actually very accurate in terms of how the mind works. Every time there’s disappointment, the old wiring (the old identity) reacts like a fire alarm, blaring danger, because it’s built around the belief that life betrays you and the universe can’t be trusted.  But here’s something most people don’t realize: that “fire” isn’t the universe punishing you. It’s your old self — the version of you that has lived in survival mode for years — doing everything in its power to convince you to stay in the familiar zone of disappointment, because that’s what it knows best. The nervous system will literally beg, argue, and bargain to keep you in the story of “I always get burned” because that story, painful as it is, feels safe to the part of you that fears being fooled again.  When we start changing identities — when you begin stepping into the version of YOU who wins, who is safe, who is supported — the old one panics. It screams louder: “Don’t trust, don’t believe, you’ll get hurt again!” That’s the fire. It’s not divine punishment; it’s an alarm that’s been going off for decades. It’s terrified of extinction.That’s why rebuilding trust feels impossible — because you’re trying to build a new structure while the old alarm is still blaring. The first step isn’t to argue with it or “make it stop” — it’s to recognize, “This is just my nervous system’s old program trying to keep me in survival.” You can actually talk to it: “I see you. You’re scared. But I’m not that person anymore. I’m not in danger.”  You’ve been conditioned for so long to see disappointment as proof that life is against you. But what if it’s actually proof that your identity shift is happening? Think of it like a demolition phase — the old framework is being burned away so the new foundation can finally set. If you stay focused on the ashes, you’ll think everything’s gone wrong. But if you look closer, that fire is clearing space for a structure that can’t burn down again — because it’s built from awareness, not fear.  And, you’re right — you do deserve wealth, comfort, and freedom. But those things come through the new identity that trusts it’s safe to receive, not the old one that’s still scanning for betrayal. That’s why calming the red alert state is the most important thing right now. Once your system feels safe again, your logic and intuition can work together instead of against each other.  You’re not being punished. You’re being transformed. The part that feels like it’s dying off is the victim self that has been running the show for too long. Let it cry, let it vent, let it burn itself out. You’ll still be here — the real you — calmer, clearer, and finally ready to let things flow without fear of the next fire.We can work together on stabilizing that identity shift — I promise, once that happens, money will stop feeling like a crisis and start feeling like a natural extension of your state.

With compassion,
Veronica

What I meant was disappointment happening over and over and over and over again and nothing changing. Money is a crisis due to rude and indecisive people who are too scared to buy anything because of the economy, tariffs, inflation or whatever and they think it gives them that right to be rude.