Welcome to the forum :-)

I would suggest to remind yourself how you would act if you were in the relationship.  Would you feel the need to check up on them? You want to emulate what it would be like to have this, hence the way you think, act and feel is very important.

Veronica xxoo

thelovercard wrote:

hi all of you lovely people! I want to say I'm a bit new to this forum still so I'm sorry if I was supposed to write this question under a specific topic, I'm still a bit all over the place. 

I've been manifesting someone back but some days I check up on them more on social media than others. I've been told it's something I shouldn't feel ashamed of, it just happens. but I was wondering if you guys had any advice not to check up on them? (i hope that makes sense) and because I still do sometimes (like 3 minutes ago) will that slow down my intent for coming in my reality? Thank you guys <3 I hope this made sense lol 

thelovercard wrote:

hi all of you lovely people! I want to say I'm a bit new to this forum still so I'm sorry if I was supposed to write this question under a specific topic, I'm still a bit all over the place. 

I've been manifesting someone back but some days I check up on them more on social media than others. I've been told it's something I shouldn't feel ashamed of, it just happens. but I was wondering if you guys had any advice not to check up on them? (i hope that makes sense) and because I still do sometimes (like 3 minutes ago) will that slow down my intent for coming in my reality? Thank you guys <3 I hope this made sense lol 

 

Checking up on an SP you are trying to manifest a relationship with on social media is not only a very bad and counterproductive idea, but it doesn't 'just happen'. You have to decide to do it and then do it. Otherwise you are suggesting you are powerless to control yourself.

What do you hope to gain by checking? What happens if you see something you don't like, like a third party? React to it like most people do? Let it affect you? Decide to give up? When this forum used to be a lot more active a couple of years ago, I saw this happen all the time. The only thing that matters is what is going on in your imagination and your consistent, habitual thoughts. The current 3D is old news. You can change it by imaginal acts and consistent thoughts that are what you want to experience if you persist, give it the time it needs, and believe that what is going on in your mind is what creates. Live in the end in your imagination of already having your desire now and think from that perspective.

Strict mental diet, law of assumption, living in the end, faith that your thoughts and imagination create are the important things. It has to happen in your mind first before it gets pushed out into your external experience, and you don't have to lift a finger.