Dallen1138 wrote:

I was doing okay with self love and meditating in order to get my ex back however before when she first got into a relationship a couple months ago I wished her well and asked her if we could only talk again if we could try again and I was going to wait patiently, however yesterday I saw a picture of her and her new boyfriend and panicked and wanted to try to get my things mailed back to me thinking she's moved on when contacting her I asked her if she still had thoughts and feelings for me and her response was i shouldn't ask her that when she's in a committed relationship and told me to take care and has now blocked me, unfortunately this was all impulse after a slight panic attack and I just wanted an answer to whether she still loved me or had a chance with her, I do need some help, thank you

 

I don't know what you mean by meditating, but if you want your outward experiences to change, you've got to change what is going on in your mind first.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk&t=9s

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-Pc6JSsbW4U

Dallen1138 wrote:

I definitely know I need to change the outlook, I started doing coaching now, the question is have I pushed my ex back too far?

 

If you're doing coaching, why haven't you asked them that?

Don't bother. Save your money. Anything is possible. It's only hopeless if you believe it is. Listen to those links I sent you and do what he tells you. He's the best teacher of all, and he's FREE. And it works! Proven 100% effective when done properly, which includes having faith in your imaginal acts, persevering for as long as it takes, and being patient.

Dallen1138 wrote:

I hope so, this was someone I spent years with

 
Don't hope, don't doubt, don't question it, just do it.