I feel like if someone has to ask then you are still focusing on lack. It does take a bit sometimes but the place you want to be is enjoying the now and knowing your desire is on the way. So it sounds like you are getting there so keep at it . The main thing that has worked for me is focusing on taking care of myself. Eating better working out concious of myself talk. Yes you are on the right track thinking positive and happy things about him but do that and then focus on things that make you happy or other goals you have. The best time stuff happens is when we are focused on other stuff 😊

You said you've been visualising him and visualising talking to him, but have you been imagining having the relationship you desire with him as if you already have it now? It is thinking from the end that brings the results, not thinking about the person. It is the relationship with him that you want.