It does so I'm meeting with him on Tuesday just to get everything I want to say out

I can't do this anymore I want him back but it's like it seems he isn't happy or I'm getting mixed signals...like I said to him see you are happy and he said "happy and relaxed are different things but yeah you?"

I just feel like I can manifest anything but this...I thought I was making progress ...

Last edited by Selfloveiskey (9/28/2017 9:57 am)

Lifesagas wrote:

You know my opinion even though it upsets you, I have never wanted to upset anyone. I have seen the ups and downs you have had and when you came back you said trying to mainfest him was making you ill. I didn't want you to risk that again.

I think - and it doesn't matter if you agree or not, I say it because I care about your wellbeing - you have tried hard over a really, really long period of time and more than most people ever would.

You've done lots of work and I would let go. Completely. Move on. Don't date other guys if you don't feel ready. I think he could come back but I really don't think that'll happen till you've genuinely let go and moved on.

Keep going if you want though, it's up to you.

I want to tell him how I feel about him and also tell him I can't do the whole will they or won't they thing anymore because the signs I got the things he has done seems like he is still hung up on me. Tell me if I'm wrong though so I don't make a fool of myself when I talk to him.

Lifesagas wrote:

And I know it's an anti-LOA response but this guy really makes me angry on your behalf with his playing on your emotions! I want him to get sand in his pants at the beach.

Lol well ok please help me? The only way I can let go is to say everything right. But keep in mind we have the same friends so I want this to be at the very least civil. If I were to tell him I'm tired of the games and that it seems he is unhappy and also is hung up on me is that a right assumption?

Honey, I think he knows 100% how you feel about him. You haven't hidden it well (sorry!). I wouldn't massage his ego anymore by telling him but if you think it'll help or make you feel better? I wouldn't though.

If it was me i'd cut him off completely and be angry about his tiny little signs that keep you hanging on and I'd want to say something but I'd try not to give him the satisfaction that he made me feel that way.