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That's really sad but it's something you can change. It's been five years but isn't to late to try to save this.
First stop feeling miserable without him, if you keep feeling this way u r never gonna get him back. why? because that is easy to see that's what people around you see too, sadness and neediness. You don't need him, you want him.
Now, MOVE ON. I know what a lot of people say to you, to visualize u happy with him, kissing and in a relationship again BUT you are right now in a very low state, you are gonna visualize out of a bad place and you are gonna keep him away. Instead please imagine first that you are with a person that loves you very much, that it's right for you, and that you love him very much AND let me tell you, that doesn't mean you are gonna attract a diferent person than your ex,actually you are attracting him even better. Because it's a paper in blank.
Now love yourself, go to the gym, eat healthy, lose weight if needed. Start to taking care of you. When you can say you are a worthy woman and that anyone will be very lucky to have you as a girlfriend, you are gonna see change.
Since today apply no contact to him. If he text you or call you tell him no to do it unless he has something important to discuss and wish him well. You can't keep a friendship with him either becaused that's no what you want. Don't hange around accepting crumbs.no more. Live your life and have dates, a tinder profile and go out with friends. But don't communicate with him or think about him.
If you need more advice just message me that I would love to help
Remember you are BEAUTIFUL and anyone would be so dan lucky to have someone like you.:Do smile

Jenny wrote:

That's really sad but it's something you can change. It's been five years but isn't to late to try to save this.
First stop feeling miserable without him, if you keep feeling this way u r never gonna get him back. why? because that is easy to see that's what people around you see too, sadness and neediness. You don't need him, you want him.
Now, MOVE ON. I know what a lot of people say to you, to visualize u happy with him, kissing and in a relationship again BUT you are right now in a very low state, you are gonna visualize out of a bad place and you are gonna keep him away. Instead please imagine first that you are with a person that loves you very much, that it's right for you, and that you love him very much AND let me tell you, that doesn't mean you are gonna attract a diferent person than your ex,actually you are attracting him even better. Because it's a paper in blank.
Now love yourself, go to the gym, eat healthy, lose weight if needed. Start to taking care of you. When you can say you are a worthy woman and that anyone will be very lucky to have you as a girlfriend, you are gonna see change.
Since today apply no contact to him. If he text you or call you tell him no to do it unless he has something important to discuss and wish him well. You can't keep a friendship with him either becaused that's no what you want. Don't hange around accepting crumbs.no more. Live your life and have dates, a tinder profile and go out with friends. But don't communicate with him or think about him.
If you need more advice just message me that I would love to help
Remember you are BEAUTIFUL and anyone would be so dan lucky to have someone like you.:Do smile

I agree with all of this.    They aren't in a great mental state to try to attract back

They first need to find a new love for themselves and after that is accomplished, then they can try to attract back


I don't have many regrets, but the one thing I wish I could do different.  Was wait to attract my ex back after I worked on myself