I think the age difference on this forum shows sometimes..   

a lot of people who are surprised about this are 30 or older.  

people around the ages 16-28  just have a whole different way of operating  than people 30 and over 

this is just how the "new generation" is  and I suspect it to get even weirder/more complicated for generations after 

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

You are making me feel old, Dan, a good old 1984 vintage. 

Haha sorry.         Dating is so weird nowadays

That's why I don't blame YIW for being confused

A lot of younger people are scared to fall in love(well I'm sure everyone is). But people will say one thing but mean the opposite.   

With the younger generation.   People being distant and stuff, can be a sign of them liking you.  So it's hard to tell sometimes lol

YesIWILL wrote:

Super. So she's just going to walk out of my life for good. Great. Yeah, that about lines up with life.

See that? Right there...you may have a belief/ attitude that love is hard or you're not worthy of love or that there will always be something in your way. What can you do to shift that attitude/ belief?
 

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I'm a what you see is what you get sort of person. Say what I mean and expect others to do the same. I can't abide stuff and nonsense. 

same here lol     I don't like people being confused or having to wonder.. some people like that 

I apologize. I genuinely didn't realize she was playing you. She seems like she's getting her ego stroked by the attention. She knew she was going to have an arranged marriage yet continued to date outside of what/who her parents would choose for her. Not only that, she's getting way too deep. She's blocked you, but is still messaging you? That's a mind game there. This seems very melodramatic for the sake of dramatics. Don't feed her ego. I'd just stop now. This one is aiming to hurt you.