1 - lolabear
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My success - Time & distance don't matter
I just wanted to briefly share my success because a lot of people seem to fear that time and distance are factors in manifesting a relationship with the person you desire. They're really not. You have equal possibility of manifesting your neighbor versus someone who is across the world.
Time and distance are only an issue if you make them one.
I personally manifested my boyfriend back after two years and he lives several hours from me. For an entire year, we didn't speak. I had no idea what he was up to and vice versa. I had no physical evidence to believe he'd be back but I had faith anyway. Then another year passed before he traveled to see me in person. We met up and it was like nothing bad ever happened between us.
So please try to stop worrying about things like that. You create your reality so you decide ft something is a problem or not, and if you're in charge, why would you choose to create a problem? Just let that **** go.
- lolabear
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Re: My success - Time & distance don't matter
I should also add that I screwed it up like five times. Seriously, he's come and gone so many times that it's amusing. I yelled at him, criticized him, bombarded him with texts, etc. All that annoying stuff you're not supposed to do. But every time I got over it and got my **** back together, he'd be back like clockwork. And there was never any discussion about what went wrong. Each time he came back it was a fresh start. So that stuff doesn't matter either. Obviously, try not to do it. 😂 But if you "mess up" don't beat yourself up about it. Learn from it and move on. Just like time and distance, it's only a problem if you make it one.
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Re: My success - Time & distance don't matter
This gives me some hope. How did you hang on that one year of absolute no contact?
He's 13000km away. we haven't talked at all for a month. He told me we should move on on march 3rd... He never believed it would work...
We were never officially together but we talked everyday for 6 months before meeting. And when we met things were wonderful. It's like we've known each other before...
Thank you for posting this. I've been having a bad time this week. Current reality is getting to me.
I believe he will be back. But I'm also having all these negative fears fighting. I am trying to embrace those thought and convert them..
Thank you again.
- lolabear
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I didn't "hang on", I thrived. I learned to appreciate more of what I had, I practiced my manifesting skills, I worked on loving myself and loving him, I dated other people. Then I cried, felt miserable, missed him, gave up. Then I got over it and worked on appreciating again, and worked on my manifesting skills, and loving myself and him. And repeat. Until I became so confident in myself and my ability that he just poofed right back into my life when I wasn't even thinking about him.
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Thread Starter- LearningToDetach
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Re: My success - Time & distance don't matter
lolabear wrote:
I didn't "hang on", I thrived. I learned to appreciate more of what I had, I practiced my manifesting skills, I worked on loving myself and loving him, I dated other people. Then I cried, felt miserable, missed him, gave up. Then I got over it and worked on appreciating again, and worked on my manifesting skills, and loving myself and him. And repeat. Until I became so confident in myself and my ability that he just poofed right back into my life when I wasn't even thinking about him.
Okie. Im in the working. I tumble a few times the past weeks. Thank you 
- honeebee
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this is really an inspiration for me because I sometimes screw up too
- rpt.sunnymist
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Just let that **** go!!
That **** of feeling alone without them & waiting for them.feel you already have them. Sometimes we got up down feelings in journey but do not stop being positive.
Because after you let that **** go you will be normal.
If you are not normal & they come back then you will have second worries of loosing them. You will try to make them more happy with worries inside your heart of loosing them & they will go again.
After being normal when they come, you will no longer have that worries because you will be happy with your own self as well.
Love this post thank you Lola.
- sweetlove1990
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Very, very true! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!
Love is the highest vibration.
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Hello everyone I am new here. My ex bf left me so suddenly out of the blue and I don't know how to win him back. I have a question..How do you detach but have faith at the same time that he will be back? I got so horribly upset yesterday when I caved in and checked his social media sites. His pictures show he is happy and enjoying. I shud be happy for him I know but I can't help but think about all sorts of things I'm not supposed to be thinking. I need to get out of this vibration and raise it isn't it? How do I let go? I'm afraid if I let go will he return?
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Lolabear, THANK YOU! I'm on day 3 of the 25 day challenge and my morning's challenge was to find a success story I was drawn to and read it. Your situation is very similar to mine. My ex lives in another state and we haven't spoken in 6 months. You're truly an inspiration and your outcome is what I aspire as my own. I have tears in my eyes reading your post! Do you have any tips for us?
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