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6/18/2017 12:15 pm  #21


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

Hmm things with texting is tricky.      When I first started out with loa, I remember people saying, that the person may he wanted to reach out, but didn't.      But it's funny, the person you're talking about, will probably reach out to you at some random time


I told the story here, I haven't talked to a friend in like a month.    I randomly thought about ME texting them.  But I told myself I'll do it later

Then.  I just went away from my phone for like an hour, went back and saw a text from them

 

6/18/2017 12:36 pm  #22


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

YesIWILL wrote:

lolabear wrote:

There was absolutely resistance in both situations.

You struggle to manifest anything, period, and yet you claim to feel confident enough to predict the sex of a baby? I'm sorry but I simply don't buy that.

For the other, even though you weren't counting days, you still realized it hadn't happened yet. It may have been just about to happen but it couldn't because you turned the other way and went "hmph, my stuff never came".

I'd start smaller if I were you.

APpreciatw the help, but you're very wrong on the beginning parts. With this, I had zero resistance, and I was sure it was going to. E a girl. Sorry.

You: Why didn't it work?
Everyone: This is why.
You: No, you're wrong.

Okay, whatever you say, man. Keep doing what you do, since it's super effective and all.

 

6/18/2017 12:39 pm  #23


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

Lola, what do you think he should do?


Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 

6/18/2017 1:08 pm  #24


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

Yep Always Sunny is awesome!

With respect, I'm new to the forum but have read so many threads of yours.

It's not true in my opinion to say you just have 'a block' about your girl but no resistance otherwise.

All of your posts are about resistance. You have what is called an 'external locus of control' so your beliefs, moods and mental state are entirely dictated by external factors and you believe you have no control whatsoever.

Your girl doesn't want you so you feel desperate and don't know how to carry on. Your family treat you in a way which you perceive as badly and it makes you desperate and angry. Posters on here respond in a way which you don't find supportive and you get upset and sometimes get into a spin of huge, huge distress and agitation and you attribute that to THEM and not you and your response. It's never you. It's never how you think or what you do.

Everything about your posts and stories on this forum say that you feel you are a victim of negative circumstance or other people - that your mood, mental state and sense of well-being is massively affected by the words and actions of other people.

So you don't feel in control of your own moods, thoughts or responses. That is completely at odds with the LOA. With the LOA you are in control, you are creating. You don't doubt because you know. You don't get upset about what other people do or say because you KNOW who you are, what your worth is and that you'll get what you want in life because you believe it and because it's RIGHT for everyone involved.

I genuinely mean this with a desire to help you. You said pills and therapy don't work - they won't until you realise that you hold the power to change how you feel and who you are.

 

6/18/2017 1:26 pm  #25


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Lola, what do you think he should do?

I think if he passionately wants to be a believer then he should tone down the skepticism, ramp up the enthusiasm and keep trying to manifest again, and again, and again, until it works.

 

6/18/2017 3:24 pm  #26


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

lolabear wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

lolabear wrote:

There was absolutely resistance in both situations.

You struggle to manifest anything, period, and yet you claim to feel confident enough to predict the sex of a baby? I'm sorry but I simply don't buy that.

For the other, even though you weren't counting days, you still realized it hadn't happened yet. It may have been just about to happen but it couldn't because you turned the other way and went "hmph, my stuff never came".

I'd start smaller if I were you.

APpreciatw the help, but you're very wrong on the beginning parts. With this, I had zero resistance, and I was sure it was going to. E a girl. Sorry.

You: Why didn't it work?
Everyone: This is why.
You: No, you're wrong.

Okay, whatever you say, man. Keep doing what you do, since it's super effective and all.

That is NOT WHY. Jesus. Again, seriously, I KNOW I have no resistance here in this situation. I just felt good about it with excitement, let it be.

You can't tell me, or assume something, when you don't even know how I'm feeling. So you're wrong.


Again, that's like saying, "You have orange hair" and I say "no I don't. Then you tell me I do, and say I'm wrong?!


Seriously. I'm me, I know me. Take what I say about ME, because IM THE ONLY PERSON WHO COULD TRULY KNOW, NOT YOU, and if you're willing, try and help me find an answer based upon the given information, without making assumptions or without telling me I'm LYING, I'd appreciate it. Thank you.

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6/18/2017 3:45 pm  #27


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

Your friend might contact you, maybe not by your specified date or by FB messenger, but by text, by swinging by, by ringing you, by seeing you out and about and saying they were thinking of calling you. It seems like you are doing that to test whether the law works. I don't think it is that precise. It has been for me - for example I was offered a job on a lower salary and I knew I wouldn't accept it, and I also knew that when I negotiated with them they would come back with what I wanted, and they did. That was timebound as I had a timescale that was essential. Getting contact from a friend isn't that crucial, unless it is about an impending event or meeting or something. 

Or, if you contacted them, they may well say something like they were thinking of you, thinking of getting in touch with you, or something like that. 

With regard to your forthcoming new nephew - congratulations! - you told the universe it would be a girl? I don't really get that. It isn't your baby so why does it matter so much - I would have thought the parents would be the ones to want a certain gender if they did at all? Again it seems like you are testing to prove that if you get smaller things you can get bigger ones. This probably wasn't the best example for you to choose. 

Why don't you stop setting these sorts of intentions for a while and simply concentrate on doing things that make you feel positive and happy, for a couple of weeks? That, and eating well, exercise, sleep, positive affirmations about yourself. I'm doing that because I need a bit of a break from things, I am exhausted.  Try it and see what happens. See what good stuff happens to you. 

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Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 

6/18/2017 3:53 pm  #28


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Your friend might contact you, maybe not by your specified date or by FB messenger, but by text, by swinging by, by ringing you, by seeing you out and about and saying they were thinking of calling you. It seems like you are doing that to test whether the law works. I don't think it is that precise. It has been for me - for example I was offered a job on a lower salary and I knew I wouldn't accept it, and I also knew that when I negotiated with them they would come back with what I wanted, and they did. That was timebound as I had a timescale that was essential. Getting contact from a friend isn't that crucial, unless it is about an impending event or meeting or something. 

Or, if you contacted them, they may well say something like they were thinking of you, thinking of getting in touch with you, or something like that. 

With regard to your forthcoming new nephew - congratulations! - you told the universe it would be a girl? I don't really get that. It isn't your baby so why does it matter so much - I would have thought the parents would be the ones to want a certain gender if they did at all? Again it seems like you are testing to prove that if you get smaller things you can get bigger ones. This probably wasn't the best example for you to choose. 

Why don't you stop setting these sorts of intentions for a while and simply concentrate on doing things that make you feel positive and happy, for a couple of weeks? That, and eating well, exercise, sleep, positive affirmations about yourself. I'm doing that because I need a bit of a break from things, I am exhausted.  Try it and see what happens. See what good stuff happens to you. 

I may not know why these things haven't happened the way I'd asked of them to, but I just wanted to say that I REALLY appreciate what you wrote, thank you I may stop these kind of intentions and just focus on feeling at peace! Thank you

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6/18/2017 4:18 pm  #29


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

You opened a thread to say how angry you are about a manifestation that didn't happen.

If you truly had no resistance, you wouldn't mind a bit, and you would just turn within and ask yourself what is it that your belief that's delaying your desire.

Think about it. You yourself say that only you can know it. So go ahead and look within.

 


I AM
 

6/18/2017 6:13 pm  #30


Re: Just a few questions - LoA failing me, no resistance. What?

Lolo wrote:

You opened a thread to say how angry you are about a manifestation that didn't happen.

If you truly had no resistance, you wouldn't mind a bit, and you would just turn within and ask yourself what is it that your belief that's delaying your desire.

Think about it. You yourself say that only you can know it. So go ahead and look within.

 

I don't agree with that at all. I appreciate the help though. I truly let go and just realized right before opening the thread that these things hadn't happened, etc. I wasn't holding onto it or thing of how long it has been.


I think you all need to reread what I'm writing

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