Cherished wrote:

Ok.. So you started that post wonderfully well! And then you shot yourself in the foot by adding how much your ex loved his ex! You are the only person who can possibly know if the same thing will happen to you.. Because you are writing the story! So how does it end? You tell us? You've got everyone here cheering you on for a happy ending.. HOW does it end?!?!?!

Ok let's try to reword what Hisoneandonly has written a bit...." I KNOW I can have him back asap  and we WILL have our wonderful relationship together again! I often visualise it when I'm having my bath, and if sometimes the bad experiences do pop up then I remind myself how much he loves me, how crazy he is about me, how he can't get me out of his mind.  He has only me in his heart and he wants me to be his girl forever!"

HisOneAndOnly, if you get any negative thoughts popping up, take them and turn them right around. You absolutely can have things the way you want. So many people on this forum have turned things around. Many of them were at such a low point with their guys when they started out with the LoA, but they have had simply mind blowing results! If they can do it, so can you for sure. But you have to be focusing only on what you want, and throw what you don't want into an imaginary trash can! 

Last edited by Debbie (10/25/2015 6:08 am)

When I'm visualising, I just hope that I can just stay there. Stay in my world, the world where he loves me and wouldn't want to lose me and I'm being so secure because I know he only loves me. Why can't it just happen already?

Cherished wrote:

Because you haven't practiced the vibration of HAVING it for long enough yet 😊 It WILL happen, if you can just keep up your positivity and constantly look forward in happiness.

 
I'm so thankful for all of your post cherished! They're all so uplifting and I will stay in it longer and stop looking at the current reality! But how do I practice and have it long enough?

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, IT'S REALLY IS THE TIME TO CHANGE,OR ELSE I'LL NEVER HAVE HIM BACK.

Last edited by Hisoneandonly (10/26/2015 6:21 am)

Cherished and Debbie, I loved reading your replies!

Debbie wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

I love the ending too and I keep visualise the ending! But that feeling feel so untrue, maybe it's because I see too many of obstacles. I can't help but think of them both. I'm scared. I always trying to turn things around. But there's too much of distraction of the obstacles and the impossibles...yesterday when I think of them, I feel okay... and maybe I'm accepting it...But right now, it's overwhelming.

Well it's perfectly understandable that you are feeling this way and really, I'm sure that all of us here know exactly what you are going through. However part of the problem as I see it, is that you are putting up a whole lot of resistance to getting what you really want. That resistance is like a big wall that stands between your guy and you right now. So somehow that wall needs to be dissolved so that you can begin to manifest in the way that you want to.
One thing I notice is that you are saying the word "but" a lot: 
 "I keep visualise the ending! BUT that feeling feel so untrue, maybe it's because I see too many of obstacles."
 "I always trying to turn things around. BUT there's too much of distraction of the obstacles and the impossibles"
"yesterday when I think of them, I feel okay... and I'm accepting it...BUT now it's overwhelming"
So it's like you want to do this, but you've got that word "but" standing in your way. That word is your wall of resistance. What if you were to watch yourself and make a point of getting rid of the "buts"?
Imagine that there are no obstacles,and no "buts". How would things be if everything would be just as you want it to be with him? How would he treat you? What would he say to you?
Try to maybe write down a secne about being with him exactly as you want it to be. But don't include the word "but" in your thoughts as you write it. Then look at what you have written every day and feel good about it. There is no such thing as "but"! In loa we really can have everything, without exception.

 
Do you mean by scripting? I think I should do it asap. I was sick this morning before exam, and I hope I can tell him like the past and he's there to comfort me. It makes me think of that last few days when we're together I told him I got a car accident, he just say "you act like so pitiful." Arh, it brings me down again.