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I need some insight and reassurance! So, I am on day 8 of No Contact, and I am starting to get down on myself. I want to be with my love and I know that it is possible. I am just starting to feel so abandoned, and I am still in shock about the breakup. We were supposed to get married in April. A couple days ago I was "flying high," but now every time I read a post that has others discouragement I get easily triggered. I was feeling so aligned before whereas now I am trying to get my head back on straight. How do you deal with self doubt and raise your vibration? How do you change your beliefs to accepting that yes you do deserve what you want? I guess I have been so used to being so negative I haven't realized it. I have been listening Abraham Hicks, and I felt my whole mentality change. Then, I realize all the limitless creation I could have, if only I could keep my vibration high, keep my focus, and continue to grow as a person. I know that my life can take me as far as my creativity can. I need some sort of guidance, some reassurance, something. Tell me, for those of you who have attracted your loves back, how and when did you really start to believe? How did you keep your momentum and leave the past behind. I know know know I need to let go of the past, but my mind is being a little pesk and it's driving me nuts.Β
Now, I am feeling like maybe I shouldn't have created this post because I am sending out a low vibration that will attract something that I don't want. It's this big loop and I'm trying to snap out of it.Β
Last edited by 1Sabo1 (3/18/2017 12:07 am)
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It's a process. Changing your belief system and the way you think takes months or even years. It's normal that you can't implement everything the moment you hear it.
I would strongly recommend not to force yourself in a good mood, but to get over the breakup first before you do anything LoA-wise. Desperation isn't the way to go. You can't force anything.