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Unsure of what to do now...
Sunday was fabulous! We talked like old times, but after Monday things have been rocky and I think she was hinting one night, that her protest group was like a 'retreat from friends', that it was her "thing"...
And this was after explaining to me what her group does and also telling me I should "take it slow" and start small with protest groups that are calmer and saying I didn't have to join her group because of her...
And I wanted to work with her in that group...
And sure there are others, and I'll respect her wishes...
But I feel like I need more motivation to continue many of the techniques, including PW and BWD
Any suggestions?
- Avaelle
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Re: Unsure of what to do now...
It isn't anything "rocky". Her protest group is something she wants separate and as her thing. It's understandable. I'm the same way about some groups I am in. I don't want my friends and family joining. I just want something to have of my own.
There are a gazzillion things you can do with her other than this protest group.
The Universe is your playground.
- princessgirl87
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Re: Unsure of what to do now...
Avaelle wrote:
It isn't anything "rocky". Her protest group is something she wants separate and as her thing. It's understandable. I'm the same way about some groups I am in. I don't want my friends and family joining. I just want something to have of my own.
There are a gazzillion things you can do with her other than this protest group.
I'll certainly respect her wishes...
I should paraphrase what I said about needing motivation because I keep thinking of the dream I had the other morning of her where I comforted her and we were back together. After I woke up out of the dream, I lay in bed and quickly visualized her for a few seconds and kissed her on the side of her head, then fell asleep again.
I want to do a fuller PW session where I comfort her and sent out my love in case she needs it, because I have not sent her a msg in a couple of nights. ^-^
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Re: Unsure of what to do now...
You need to stop worrying about what she's doing all the time and let her have her space.
Do PW/RS/RI on her and let her come to you but stop chasing her.
No worries..I don't worry about her all the time and will give her the space she needs.
I've gone back to No Contact. Will continue the techniques. ^-^
Also wanted to spend time working more on myself...
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