Meg2222 wrote:

I think he must of freaked out, I wouldn't listen to what he says or what anyone says. If you know this to be your true desire then keep going. He wouldn't meet you for no reason, he obviously wanted to see you. 

The only thing is if you are feeling like this is bringing you down or ruining your vibes, or making you unhappy then maybe you should give up. Always go on your feelings! 

Without sounding rude, maybe you put too much pressure or too much attachment on this being the moment you guys get back together? You said you were feeling really nervous, maybe you were too attached? I know its a pain in the arse when you want someone so much and the pressure on yourself is enough as it is haha let alone wanting to be back with that person!

If your heart desires him still, the forget what happened, rewrite it in your brain that it went really well! I know it is hard when another girl is in the picture, but forget her, she isn't part of your reality. You create everything remember, and look what you manifested as well! You manifested a date with him! I think thats pretty amazing to be honest!  

We are hear for you whatever you decide!  

Thank so much meg you're such a sweetheart :*

Maybe I really wanted too much for our first time seeing us since three months ... it was just hard seeing him acting so cold ... and like avaelle said he was so sweet before... I mean he even invite me to the movie because he wanted to watch it with ME eventhough he's in a relationship right now ... I mean which guy does this if this person isn't important to him anymore?

A friend of mine knows our story pretty well and she said he tries to escape from the feelings he's having but he seems not happy where he's right now. I mean he even admit that he missed me ... all of this doesn't make sense ...

But maybe you're right and I should keep going. I still feel he's the one for me ... but I guess i should stop being so attached and focus only on me for a while... maybe I meet the guy I'm in contact right now .. just keeping my head off this stuff ..

We will see... but if anything positive stuff will happen I'll let you know

YesIWILL wrote:

He took you to see "YOUR GUYS" movie?! Yeah there's definitely something there no matter what he says

I mean would he meet me to watch 'OUR' movie if he would be so in love? No one would do that in my opinion ...

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Meg2222 wrote:

I think he must of freaked out, I wouldn't listen to what he says or what anyone says. If you know this to be your true desire then keep going. He wouldn't meet you for no reason, he obviously wanted to see you. 

The only thing is if you are feeling like this is bringing you down or ruining your vibes, or making you unhappy then maybe you should give up. Always go on your feelings! 

Without sounding rude, maybe you put too much pressure or too much attachment on this being the moment you guys get back together? You said you were feeling really nervous, maybe you were too attached? I know its a pain in the arse when you want someone so much and the pressure on yourself is enough as it is haha let alone wanting to be back with that person!

If your heart desires him still, the forget what happened, rewrite it in your brain that it went really well! I know it is hard when another girl is in the picture, but forget her, she isn't part of your reality. You create everything remember, and look what you manifested as well! You manifested a date with him! I think thats pretty amazing to be honest!  

We are hear for you whatever you decide!  

Thank so much meg you're such a sweetheart :*

Maybe I really wanted too much for our first time seeing us since three months ... it was just hard seeing him acting so cold ... and like avaelle said he was so sweet before... I mean he even invite me to the movie because he wanted to watch it with ME eventhough he's in a relationship right now ... I mean which guy does this if this person isn't important to him anymore?

A friend of mine knows our story pretty well and she said he tries to escape from the feelings he's having but he seems not happy where he's right now. I mean he even admit that he missed me ... all of this doesn't make sense ...

But maybe you're right and I should keep going. I still feel he's the one for me ... but I guess i should stop being so attached and focus only on me for a while... maybe I meet the guy I'm in contact right now .. just keeping my head off this stuff ..

We will see... but if anything positive stuff will happen I'll let you know

You know I agree.  The expectations for where the relationship would be at the end of that outing was pretty high. I feel like entire night should have been left light, airy and fun.  You both enjoyed the movie.  On the way home I think you should have just talked about the movie and maintained light conversation.  Once home,  it would have been a good time to say "wow that was fun.  we have to hang out and have that dinner"   Then just maintain that common interest, the movie,  and tag each other on articles about the movie and the memes. Stuff like that.    You can fix this..

Avaelle wrote:

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Meg2222 wrote:

I think he must of freaked out, I wouldn't listen to what he says or what anyone says. If you know this to be your true desire then keep going. He wouldn't meet you for no reason, he obviously wanted to see you. 

The only thing is if you are feeling like this is bringing you down or ruining your vibes, or making you unhappy then maybe you should give up. Always go on your feelings! 

Without sounding rude, maybe you put too much pressure or too much attachment on this being the moment you guys get back together? You said you were feeling really nervous, maybe you were too attached? I know its a pain in the arse when you want someone so much and the pressure on yourself is enough as it is haha let alone wanting to be back with that person!

If your heart desires him still, the forget what happened, rewrite it in your brain that it went really well! I know it is hard when another girl is in the picture, but forget her, she isn't part of your reality. You create everything remember, and look what you manifested as well! You manifested a date with him! I think thats pretty amazing to be honest!  

We are hear for you whatever you decide!  

Thank so much meg you're such a sweetheart :*

Maybe I really wanted too much for our first time seeing us since three months ... it was just hard seeing him acting so cold ... and like avaelle said he was so sweet before... I mean he even invite me to the movie because he wanted to watch it with ME eventhough he's in a relationship right now ... I mean which guy does this if this person isn't important to him anymore?

A friend of mine knows our story pretty well and she said he tries to escape from the feelings he's having but he seems not happy where he's right now. I mean he even admit that he missed me ... all of this doesn't make sense ...

But maybe you're right and I should keep going. I still feel he's the one for me ... but I guess i should stop being so attached and focus only on me for a while... maybe I meet the guy I'm in contact right now .. just keeping my head off this stuff ..

We will see... but if anything positive stuff will happen I'll let you know

You know I agree.  The expectations for where the relationship would be at the end of that outing was pretty high. I feel like entire night should have been left light, airy and fun.  You both enjoyed the movie.  On the way home I think you should have just talked about the movie and maintained light conversation.  Once home,  it would have been a good time to say "wow that was fun.  we have to hang out and have that dinner"   Then just maintain that common interest, the movie,  and tag each other on articles about the movie and the memes. Stuff like that.    You can fix this..

Well that was the problem he didn't even left me the possibility to talk about anything when we were at my place ... that was what made me so angry ... oh you mean at home... yeah ... well I killed it lol ... I hope flora says that we will talk soon again ...idk how to fix that

Avaelle wrote:

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

You know I agree.  The expectations for where the relationship would be at the end of that outing was pretty high. I feel like entire night should have been left light, airy and fun.  You both enjoyed the movie.  On the way home I think you should have just talked about the movie and maintained light conversation.  Once home,  it would have been a good time to say "wow that was fun.  we have to hang out and have that dinner"   Then just maintain that common interest, the movie,  and tag each other on articles about the movie and the memes. Stuff like that.    You can fix this..

Well that was the problem he didn't even left me the possibility to talk about anything when we were at my place ... that was what made me so angry ... oh you mean at home... yeah ... well I killed it lol ... I hope flora says that we will talk soon again ...idk how to fix that

I meant in the car. By the end of the ride,  it sounds like he was pretty much over it because of the pressure.

Like I said he wanted to get out before I even talked about it. I didn't pressure anything until this cold goodbye stuff