1 - MadMoiselle87
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So much for my happy ending...
Hey guys,
Idk I guess this is my good bye?! ... I were at the movies with my guy yesterday we haven't seen in three months because he's with another girl atm.. But he invited me to the movie beauty and the beast because this movie always had a special meaning to us.. I thought this was a good sign but I guess I was wrong..
At the beginning of our date it seemed all well he even told me he wrote me whenever he missed me but became distant because he thought this would be the right thing to do.. (I didn't want to be friends because I couldn't handle the fact he's in a relationship). We had fun watching the movie and sometimes our arms touched another but that was it..
He drove me home and I hoped that we would have a chat since we haven't seen and talked for so long but I was wrong.. He didn't even park the car he just hold on and just wanted to say good bye .. I was so hurt and I asked him if that's everything .. he told me what I was expecting and that too much changed and time has passed so that it's not the same between us anymore.. He said it was more in the past but that's not anymore. When I asked him why he invited me to the movie then he said 'because it's our movie' ... Doesn't make sense at all.
That's it .. Not even one single sign that anything I've done worked ... he was just distant and cold and that's it.. I fought since summer and now I'm too hurt and on my limit.. I was so happy lately and really had the feeling everything I did works but it doesn't really seems like that.. Right now eventhough I'm still sure that we're soulmates and there is a connection between us but he tries to fight it so strong.. stronger than any technique I could ever use.. So I'm planning to let go.. but not like the universe will work it for me .. more like really letting go of him.. I'm in contact with another guy right now.. I didn't give him a chance by now because I wanted my guy and nobody else but I don't have a chance so I guess I have to move on ...
I'm sorry for this depressing story lol but I had to share it since some of you wanted an update
- Dan2015
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Re: So much for my happy ending...
If at first you don't succeed. Dust yourself off and try again
I honestly think people get too caught up in these sentimental moments, if you guys get together in the next few months, are you really going to care about what happened the time you seen the movie?
It doesn't mean it's over, its just not happening at this moment(could be resistance or could be something else)
- Avaelle
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Re: So much for my happy ending...
Whatever you decide, I'm here for you.
The Universe is your playground.
- MadMoiselle87
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Re: So much for my happy ending...
Dan2015 wrote:
If at first you don't succeed. Dust yourself off and try again
I honestly think people get too caught up in these sentimental moments, if you guys get together in the next few months, are you really going to care about what happened the time you seen the movie?
It doesn't mean it's over, its just not happening at this moment(could be resistance or could be something else)
So you think I should ignore what happened? It's hard to blend out his relationship and his cold behavior ..
I know ... it's just hard we've never been so distant to each other...
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Thread Starter- MadMoiselle87
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Re: So much for my happy ending...
Whatever you decide, I'm here for you.
Thank you ..
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Whatever you decide, I'm here for you.
Thank you ..
You're welcome. I don't think you should give up. But, if you decide to - we can talk about and support the new guy.
The Universe is your playground.
- MadMoiselle87
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Whatever you decide, I'm here for you.
Thank you ..
You're welcome. I don't think you should give up. But, if you decide to - we can talk about and support the new guy.
You like me and my guy don't you? lol ... idk it's just been so long and i get the feeling it's getting worse
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Thread Starter- Meg2222
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Re: So much for my happy ending...
I think he must of freaked out, I wouldn't listen to what he says or what anyone says. If you know this to be your true desire then keep going. He wouldn't meet you for no reason, he obviously wanted to see you.
The only thing is if you are feeling like this is bringing you down or ruining your vibes, or making you unhappy then maybe you should give up. Always go on your feelings!
Without sounding rude, maybe you put too much pressure or too much attachment on this being the moment you guys get back together? You said you were feeling really nervous, maybe you were too attached? I know its a pain in the arse when you want someone so much and the pressure on yourself is enough as it is haha let alone wanting to be back with that person!
If your heart desires him still, the forget what happened, rewrite it in your brain that it went really well! I know it is hard when another girl is in the picture, but forget her, she isn't part of your reality. You create everything remember, and look what you manifested as well! You manifested a date with him! I think thats pretty amazing to be honest! 
We are hear for you whatever you decide!
- Avaelle
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Thank you ..You're welcome. I don't think you should give up. But, if you decide to - we can talk about and support the new guy.
You like me and my guy don't you? lol ... idk it's just been so long and i get the feeling it's getting worse
Yes, because looking at the situation it was all so sweet the way everything was falling together. I was so happy for you and even told you that I was jealous LOL.
I agree with Meg. He didn't meet you for no reason. He came because the experience with that movie is something special to you both and means something to him. It's something there..
The Universe is your playground.
- YesIWILL
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Re: So much for my happy ending...
He took you to see "YOUR GUYS" movie?! Yeah there's definitely something there no matter what he says
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