...but I'm friendzoned, as he is trying to be in a relationship with another girl. Some time ago I made a post saying we're back in touch after 1.5 years of absolute no contact. We are really good friends now and he keeps asking me for advice how to be better with her. I know we'll eventually be back together, but I find it difficult to fully ignore this whole situation. He sends me screenshots of conversations with her, he also says he misses another girl that he had a sex-relationship with... My question is: how do you ignore current reality? I know being hurt doesn't help at all, but sometimes I just can't stop feeling of sadness or frustration from developing in my soul I meditate and do RS (Lanie Steven's method) as much as I can, I try to feel calm and at peace, but sometimes I have breakdowns that don't help current situation at all. What are your methods?