Hi everyone!
I'll try to make the story short. My boyfriend and I started dating 3 and a half years ago. most of the time was long distance. In april he broke up and we almost had no contact after that. But it took me about 2 months to manifest him back. The reason he broke up with me was because he had a crisis and wasn't happy with his life so he wanted to figure out what he wanted. After 2 months - I had only focused on making myself happy - and that's when he asked me to get back together and said he missed me and stuff. I then went to his country for the summer. We had a great time but then my grandma died and because I was staying at my boyfriends house most of the time while he was at work I kind of got a little sad and lost motivation and we had a few little fights. But when I went back home everything was totally fine between me and my boyfriend.
But something that bothers me is that the first year of being a couple we used to talk for hours and hours everyday and since like a year, we hardly talk on the phone. I would love to talk everyday or at least a little more often and I told him. I know he likes to be alone sometimes and he kinda doesn't wanna cope with me being far away but come on. Since summer we usually have a 1 hour phone call every 2 weeks but even when we talk I feel like I'm the one asking or telling him stuff and he's quite uninterested. I also feel like he's being kind of a negative person these days and not making an effort in our relationship. Sometimes I have thoughts of breaking up because that situation doesn't make me happy, I wan't him to want to talk to me, to miss me and want to know about me if you know what I mean. However I know what relationship we used to have and while we are together he is still the guy I fell in love with. He is coming over on christmas/ new year but even though I will be happy once he is here, I'm not happy with our situation now. But I don't wanna give up on him. I want our relationship to be great as it used to be and I also wish to manifest us moving in together but I'm struggling with all that because right now our relationship is not in the place I want it to be.
I was hoping that maybe someone of you had a similar situation or just any kind of advice for me and other people who are experiencing something similar.
Thank you so much!
Lots of love to all of you and may your dreams come true!