I just want to share with you a success story.
It happened a year ago, when I started watching Veronica's videos.
It is not ex-related.
In that time, I wanted to attract new friendships.
In order to get into the feeling I remembered times with a former best friend of me I lost contact with.
I made screenshots of posts she posted on my fb- wall a few years ago.
I visualised us meeting up. I did not do it in order to attract HER but just to get into the feeling of having a best friend.
At school I heard her talking to a class mate that she celebrates her birthday- with her close friends only. She invited her.
I do not know why, but I felt a little hurt that she did not invite me. There is no reason for her to invite me, we hardly talked and were not friends anymore.But I made the decision to NOT let that drain me. I stayed happy and did not bother about it.
And one day later, I looked at my phone and was part of the whatsapp-group "Laura's Birthday"
That was totally crazy. She invited me even though only her Closest friends were invited.
That was sooooo cool! 
It happened because I decided to not let the circumstances bring me down. Because they do not matter.

It just came to my mind and I wanted to share this with you.
So that you do not get frustrated or angry when something happens that discourages you