YesIWILL wrote:

which is it? ive read people say "know/have faith its happening" etc. so i get excited that itll come in my reality [like a "day before christmas" feeling, im excited itll happen, but dont have it physically yet], is that right? or am i supposed to get into the feeling of already having my desire? thanks!:]

I don't think the two are separate and should go hand in hand to achieve your manifestation. You should 100% know it will happen and have total belief in this, your beliefs are what the universe will manifest for you. The feeling of already having your desire is important to changing your current reality to your desired one. But don't mistake this feeling as a means of 'getting her back' this should come from a place of confidence and absolute knowing you can have the reality you choose to live in. Does that make sense? so I am saying don't do all of this because you think it will get her back, its never about the other person it is all about you feeling happy, confident and abundant. You have put your order into the universe to have her back, it has been heard and it is coming to you. Keep that excited feeling that she is coming back because it makes you feel good, it makes you feel loved and happy!