RollingRock33 wrote:

And could that block/unblock thing just mean she likes me as a friend, and not hasure feelings towards me?

Dude, you have to decide if you want to be an observer or a creator. You can't be both.

RollingRock33 wrote:

holistichealing wrote:

RollingRock33 wrote:

And could that block/unblock thing just mean she likes me as a friend, and not hasure feelings towards me?

Those are questions formed from anxiety. You are overthiking. You need to remember YOUR worth. She does not judge that, only you do. So why not start asking yourself why you put yourself through all these trials of questions and error. You need to dig deep into yourself. You are only going to create resistance with these questions.

You're right. I guess it just makes me nervous that she might actually be telling the truth that she has no feelings for me. But again I personally wouldn't do that whole block / unblocked thing for just a friend. They would have to be more than a friend for me to not give up on them after messing up so many times

Here is what I feel would be a good starter to help you with your anxiety. Whenever you have a question write it down. Then write down what is making you feel uneasy that you ask that question. Then scribble all of that out and write what you really want underneath. This teaches you to acknowledge your fears, but also gets you into the habit of focusing on what you do want. Through that you create positive thoughts. I HIGHLY recommend it.

RollingRock33 wrote:

so she completely disregarded the friends thing. And she's back to saying that she likes the way things are and she does not want me in her life. I let her know how much I'm hurting in great detail without sounding needy. But she's being really cold, and she doesn't even seem to care that I'm in pain. So if this is all happening and she apparently does not care about me then why did she add me back on to Snapchat?

Didn't you tell her that you were going to leave her alone before she blocked you?

But why would she do that, even still, if she wants me out of her life? I can't see her unblocking me because I "wouldn't contact her until a month from now", which is my birthday. I told her, I'd leave her be until my birthday. But she still said she didn't want anything to do with me, and she wanted me out of her life. So even so, if that's really what she wanted, why would she unblock me and readd me, too?

After I told her "I'll leave you be until my birthday next month" (paraphrasing that quote btw) - this was AFTER she said she wanted me out of her life, etc. - then randomly, she unblocked me and added me again, after stating pridefully, that she wanted nothing to do with me and wanted me out of her life. And when I reached out after she unblocked me, she still said "everything is fine the way it is, I'm fine with it", "I don't want you in my life", etc. Same thing she said before she unblocked me. So why did she unblock me, unless she's got some feelings for me? It doesn't make any sense, really...

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happyinlove wrote:

I am trying to put this as nicely as possible. Why are you questioning something you wanted? I mean did you want to be blocked? See loa was working for ya and you are like no let me figure this out. Dude also do not tell her what you plan to do. She doesn't need to know that any of it. Just follow what EVERYONE has told you. Why keep asking why she did this and that you are focusing on the wrong thing doing that.

Honestly, because I'm still trying to figure out how she feels about me, if I have a chance, etc. I want to know that I have that chance, because uncertainty makes me so worried in this scenario. I want to  increase my vibe, etc., and knowing if I've got that chance, if she still has feelings for me would help... It would help my mood, and the manifestation process. Up until a few minutes ago I was feeling on top of the world.

Her actions are so... odd. I can follow what everyone has told me, I just don't understand why she'd unblock me if she wants me out of her life. It's odd as **** o.o

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