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Hello it's me again
My boyfriend of 3 years and I had parted ways on April 19th (two months ago).
I saw him once, five days after our break up for a dinner, and had a really happy time (although he said to me "Let's have dinner again next time!" that never happened), and since then he started avoiding me. We had a 'closure' talk on the phone on May 9th, and I did 30-days no contact for a whole month, then initiated a text again on June 9th, but nope, no reply. PRETTY HOPELESS RIGHT?
Nope. According to Veronica, nothing is hopeless lol
During that time, I also re-discovered LoA, and BAM, it changed my life as a whole.
I stopped checking his social media (no facebook no instagram) or anything related to him, didn't even text him happy birthday on his birthday on June 16th. (good job good job)
I feel like I don't need to know what he does in his life now, I just need to focus on myself and my mindset.
I became a lot happier, positive, stronger, more independent and confident in myself. Everyday feels AWESOME, so full of love and positive energy
All I do is visualizing my happy relationship with him everyday, and radiating my heart energy and love to him every night before I sleep.
ANYWAYS, my birthday is coming up on July 20th, so I'm going to challenge myself!
I WILL MAKE THIS HAPPEN! Nothing is impossible when it comes to LoA! I will keep up my positive vibe!
I will be updating/editting this post daily!
DAY 1
I am positive, I am happy, I am strong, I am peaceful, I am relaxed, I am confident, I am independent. I am full of faith, I am full of hope. I love myself.
Dear universe, I am grateful that today, I am once again alive.
I am grateful for my friends and family, their love and support,
I am grateful for my job, my car, my pet.
I am grateful for his unconditional love, and grateful for our happy loving relationship.
Thank you.
Last edited by piggy720 (6/24/2016 2:25 pm)
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Great thoughts! You are surely up to the task! Just let go of the time element if you want it to happen soon.
I love how you made positive shanges in your life!
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Severis94 wrote:
Great thoughts! You are surely up to the task! Just let go of the time element if you want it to happen soon.
I love how you made positive shanges in your life!
When you say let go of the time element, do you mean I should not focus too much on "I have to do this within 25 days!" kinna thought?
Thank you soooo much for your encouragement, Severis94.
Let's continue talking to them through their pictures everyday....LOL
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Why do you want him back until your birthday? Of course I understand that it would be nice to spend time with him on your birthday but is this the only reason or are there others?
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Sanshi wrote:
Why do you want him back until your birthday? Of course I understand that it would be nice to spend time with him on your birthday but is this the only reason or are there others?
It just happens that the challenge is called a 25 Day Challenge, and coincidentally it's my birthday in 26 days so...
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If you set a time limit it can happen that you are more resisting than necessary. If you can think you can hold your vibration up and the time limit don't make you doubt, go for it. It's completely possible. I attracted falling in love with a guy exactly on the date I intended it (at the time of the intension there wasn't even a guy near to fall in love with). So it all comes down to how much you allow it in.
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Sanshi wrote:
If you set a time limit it can happen that you are more resisting than necessary. If you can think you can hold your vibration up and the time limit don't make you doubt, go for it. It's completely possible. I attracted falling in love with a guy exactly on the date I intended it (at the time of the intension there wasn't even a guy near to fall in love with). So it all comes down to how much you allow it in.
Yeah, I've also read a lot of success stories from other LoA forums about how people setting a date, and miracles happened to have the guys contacted them on the same date...etc
You've been very insightful and helpful!
May I ask what's a good way to "allow it in"? I hear that a lot! but not sure what's the best way to do that.
I think I'm allowing myself to receive, but don't know how to make sure I'm actually allowing it in or not?
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piggy720 wrote:
Sanshi wrote:
If you set a time limit it can happen that you are more resisting than necessary. If you can think you can hold your vibration up and the time limit don't make you doubt, go for it. It's completely possible. I attracted falling in love with a guy exactly on the date I intended it (at the time of the intension there wasn't even a guy near to fall in love with). So it all comes down to how much you allow it in.
Yeah, I've also read a lot of success stories from other LoA forums about how people setting a date, and miracles happened to have the guys contacted them on the same date...etc
You've been very insightful and helpful!
May I ask what's a good way to "allow it in"? I hear that a lot! but not sure what's the best way to do that.
I think I'm allowing myself to receive, but don't know how to make sure I'm actually allowing it in or not?
I would it devide into two parts:
1) don't resist it - don't doubt, fear, worry, think about what is, think about what was, cry, feel bad and so on
2) allow it - concentrate on the desired reality. Feel the relationship. If you like it visualise and/or script and/or use RS but do it because it makes you happy and raises your vibration, not to get results. KNOW that is already done.
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Sanshi wrote:
piggy720 wrote:
Sanshi wrote:
If you set a time limit it can happen that you are more resisting than necessary. If you can think you can hold your vibration up and the time limit don't make you doubt, go for it. It's completely possible. I attracted falling in love with a guy exactly on the date I intended it (at the time of the intension there wasn't even a guy near to fall in love with). So it all comes down to how much you allow it in.
Yeah, I've also read a lot of success stories from other LoA forums about how people setting a date, and miracles happened to have the guys contacted them on the same date...etc
You've been very insightful and helpful!
May I ask what's a good way to "allow it in"? I hear that a lot! but not sure what's the best way to do that.
I think I'm allowing myself to receive, but don't know how to make sure I'm actually allowing it in or not?I would it devide into two parts:
1) don't resist it - don't doubt, fear, worry, think about what is, think about what was, cry, feel bad and so on
2) allow it - concentrate on the desired reality. Feel the relationship. If you like it visualise and/or script and/or use RS but do it because it makes you happy and raises your vibration, not to get results. KNOW that is already done.
Ah, okay : D
then I think I'm doing both.
I actually have no negative emotions (no doubt, fear, worries, uncertainty, nothing) at all lol
I truly believe and only visualize on our happy relationship. I even write on my journal about my ideal date, and keep a gratitude journal too! Everything just keeps me happy and positive everyday : ) I know he loves me.
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Sounds good. Then go for it.