Hi everyone, 
It's my very first postcbut I've been reading a lot of threads here these past weeks so I decided to join.

My ex broke up with me 4 weeks ago. No drama, no nothing. He said "we are soulmates" but the reason why he broke up was because he felt like the passion was not there anymore... 
Anyway...

So I got Lanie's book and watched Veronica's videos... and here's my problem : I tried Lanie's method on my ex and everytime I try to be in a meditative state and relax and start the visualization, I never seem to stay focused on him, his face, the whole method... My mind is wandering a lot, thinking about other stuff, etc.. so the RS session almost never goes through (I tried every day for the past 2 weeks...)
Thing is, I also tried her method on 2 other exes (I really don't want them back, it was just a test), and I was able to go through the whole process, feeling relaxed etc.. One of them (I haven't been in contact with him for at least 2 years) called me last week out of the blue, asking where I was now and if I was married etc.. The other one texted me after a year of no contact, because "he saw a movie that made him think of me". So yessss I can confirm that Lanie's method works!!! but why do I have trouble visualizing the only man I want back in my life, and it's only been a month since the breakup... Every night I try but I keep thinking about anything else but him... And I have no trouble focusing on men I don't even want in my life anymore... 

Any thoughts ?

Thank you in advance for your insights