Questions, I am in no contact with my guy but I have been in group situations with him I try not to focus on him. Does that hinder no contact if I am just trying to be social? I feel like we are on a good path I mean he hugged me twice when he was leaving (he always hugs everyone else when he leaves but he never hugged me before in group settings he would just give me a high five until the last two times I saw him, I also just started Elizabeth Daniels book Manifesting love so I feel like that may have caused this change) and the last time I saw him too I was waiving at someone behind him and he waived and I pointed to behind him and laughed. Then he tried to get my attention once asking me to come over and try the cheesecake. small but I feel like it may matter. Anyways just wondered about being in social situations and how to handle that when you are trying to do no contact.


Also I guess question but I have been trying to apply LOA on friends. Now I try to think positive, feel the feelings of how it is to have a thriving social life and good relationships with the people I want but I am wondering about inspired action. I know that I can take action by reaching out to these people plan things etc but I need to maintain positive vibes, yet thinking about doing it scares me and stuff so to me that is not inspired. But at the same time dont I need to take some sort of action to get my desire? So I am conflicted should I just try to maintain positive thoughts and feelings and just see if they will reach out to me or should I maintain postiive thoughts and feelings but reach out even though it scares me?

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