That's beautiful.

The universe always has you back and it's always sending signs and directions in which way to go, we just sometimes get caught up in looking the wrong way.

You got some many beautiful experiences to come, just keep refocusing and refocusing till it just becomes your norm.

Keep up the good work.

Not how would I, how did I? Because yes I've been there and got the tshirt.

I had a similar situation, where it just happened. And for the all of the following day I heard nothing from him. And the negative chatter started.

I very quickly stopped the negative chatter going on and reminded myself that I was only going to get back what I focused on. Also I saw the positive and figured that it was a step towards my desire and that the universe for whatever reasons saw it as a part of the plan for it to happen that way.

I heard from him the next day and he wanted to talk about what had happened and how I felt about it, which really surprised me.

So my advice is to reframe the event in your mind, tell yourself it's just a preview of what's to come. Then stop the worry that he just wanted one thing, that's not true, he wants you. And then get back to focusing on the end game. You're higher power is moving all the elements around to bring about your desires just see the time you spent together as part of the unfolding of the mainfestation.

Also interestingly enough, I'm almost too shy to talk to him you know. Sort of wondering how to hold conversations. I can't wait to hear more updates similar to my situation.

Oasiscalm wrote:

Not how would I, how did I? Because yes I've been there and got the tshirt.

I had a similar situation, where it just happened. And for the all of the following day I heard nothing from him. And the negative chatter started.

I very quickly stopped the negative chatter going on and reminded myself that I was only going to get back what I focused on. Also I saw the positive and figured that it was a step towards my desire and that the universe for whatever reasons saw it as a part of the plan for it to happen that way.

I heard from him the next day and he wanted to talk about what had happened and how I felt about it, which really surprised me.

So my advice is to reframe the event in your mind, tell yourself it's just a preview of what's to come. Then stop the worry that he just wanted one thing, that's not true, he wants you. And then get back to focusing on the end game. You're higher power is moving all the elements around to bring about your desires just see the time you spent together as part of the unfolding of the mainfestation.

So shortly after your message he messaged me but I was driving... Ughggg

So I couldn't really hold a true conversation. But I've never been a great texter but I'm at a list for topics...I'm seeing most people fail from being clingy...naturally I wanna be like omg you miss me, love me, wanna date, huh huh huh????

So then what...especially since I'm a better speaker. Did you guys go through a awkward convo stage?

Cherished wrote:

You're doing awesome! Relax.  You're proving to yourself that you create your world.  And that absolutely includes how people perceive you.  Try not to read into anything.  Remain calm,  centred,  loving.  Remember that nothing good comes from fear.  EVERYTHING beautiful comes from love. Cultivate that love within yourself, and then communicate purely for the chance to gift someone your own love. From my experience, the best way to move forward is to reach your alignment and THEN respond. And do it not for a response. Do it for the gift of giving. Say something uplifting. Something that doesn't require a response. Something that doesn't scream "omg are we getting married now please?!?!?!" 😜 Honestly, when you find that vibration of not NEEDING a reply, and simply GIVING because it feels lovely, the person receiving will feel it strongly. And they will love you right back. 💜

You're right. I'm not 100% in alignment, yet! So I reply because it's progress but I will have those converstations or thoughts when it's time. I am super impressed how this works. I am supposed to see him this weekend with our kids. I'm going to focus and not be worried. Thank you for the advice