Stop perpetuating the reality where everyone is telling you to move on! Why do you allow their voice to be more important than yours?

The universe doesn't send you messages, it reflects what you are a vibrational match to.

Elm88 wrote:

It's really hard to stay positive at times. How do I brainwash myself to speed up my manifestations?

It's a process, and it's not so much "brainwashing" as it is "training", but you just have to keep repeating to yourself that you CAN do this, and you HAVE everything that you want.

Look up neuroplasticity. Basically our brains have neural pathways that provide us our thoughts/behaviors/beliefs/etc. and the more you practice a thought the stronger these pathways get. The less you practice a thought the weaker the pathways get until they disappear completely. Doesn't that sound cool?

So by doing affirmations as much as possible, visualizing, listening to binaural beats you will create and reinforce these positive pathways, while eradicating the negative ones. Make sure you turn the focus around onto you first, building up self-love and positivity within you and your life. I tried to focus on manifesting my person first, and it didn't work. It just didn't feel right. When I put the focus back on me for a while, and then turned my attention to manifesting my person, things have been working out and feeling so much better.

You CAN do this!

TheGiver wrote:

Elm88 wrote:

It's really hard to stay positive at times. How do I brainwash myself to speed up my manifestations?

It's a process, and it's not so much "brainwashing" as it is "training", but you just have to keep repeating to yourself that you CAN do this, and you HAVE everything that you want.

Look up neuroplasticity. Basically our brains have neural pathways that provide us our thoughts/behaviors/beliefs/etc. and the more you practice a thought the stronger these pathways get. The less you practice a thought the weaker the pathways get until they disappear completely. Doesn't that sound cool?

So by doing affirmations as much as possible, visualizing, listening to binaural beats you will create and reinforce these positive pathways, while eradicating the negative ones. Make sure you turn the focus around onto you first, building up self-love and positivity within you and your life. I tried to focus on manifesting my person first, and it didn't work. It just didn't feel right. When I put the focus back on me for a while, and then turned my attention to manifesting my person, things have been working out and feeling so much better.

You CAN do this!

Thank you. What did you do exactly to get her back?

Elm88 wrote:

Milk&Honey wrote:

Elm88 wrote:

I dont know if thats the message the universe is sending me

And why on earth would the universe want you to be unhappy?

I dont know. What I meant was is it that the Universe is telling me to move on, and that I'm just hanging on here for nothing.

It's your fears. It is because you have a belief that supports this idea. What if the universe showed you that for example you have to pick the blue dress and not the yellow dress. You would laugh. You know why? Because there is no such a belief inside you. There is no resistence. You wouldn't be affected at all. 

If it affects you, it means that you hold a belief that doesn't serve you. It is an indicator. It means there is resistence.

Last edited by Milk&Honey (3/12/2016 3:26 pm)