pectinase wrote:

Ayutsu wrote:

So he messaged me to tell me he broke up with his gf and ask me how I was doing. Briefly discussed why he pushed me away and then he abruptly left the convo without an apology or any comment on where we go from here. So still no really answers or direction. I'm back to no contact. I'm not pursuing. I am amazing andI deserve to pursued.

This is really positive news – you don't need an apology or explanation right at this moment, because they'll be coming very soon. Remember not to pile all your expectation on things happening at the same time. This will be a gradual process and will be amazing to see unfold. Hooray!
 

 
I needed to hear this. Still haven't heard back. Baby steps right?

Dabai wrote:

I found scripting visualising to be too hurtful. Did you have the same experience?

It's because you're imagining it from the place of wishing, not living from the feeling of already having it. When you vidualise, it should be vivid that you feel it around you all the time as your wish has fulfilled. And when you feel it, you get satisfaction of having your desire that you don't remind about past.

Last edited by Shy (2/19/2016 9:21 am)