That's so incredibly true, especially for me concerning my love. I guess I am incredible impatient because the universe gave my love back to me once before and I feel like it's time that the universe gave me what I want again - but ultimately that's up to the universe and not me!

I am in the same boat.  I would love to be back with him by Valentine's Day.  I myself and recalling last year's V Day, which was wonderful.  Using the feelings and images from that past good V Day to help with this goal.  Veronica tells us not to dwell in the past, but she means the BAD or negative things in the past.  Reliving the GOOD and wonderful things of the past, really does help.  For example, I look at old messages of love and cute things like that.  Then suddenly I relive the moment when I first got that message, the good vibes etc.  It is those intense feelings that help us to manifest quicker.  I use the Silva Method three finger technique I learned in college.  Meditate, hold that good memory with its associated good feelings in your mind, then when you got it in your mind, pinch your three fingers together and hold them tightly, then go about your day.  When you are feeling low, simply put your three fingers together tight again and bam the good memory and image comes flooding back.  A friend tried this after I taught him and he was never able to forget that good visualization again.