Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » How to not get ahead of myself and expect too much?

Berryluv · 12/23/2015 1:16 pm

Since the past week I have been on my high horse, being a loa bad ass (as Cherished would say) feeling good, feeling great, re-attracted my guy out if nowhere to see me, spend time and soo much more goodness. We do speak, but usually it's me that has to initiate the contact. Now I'm at a place where I feel a bit stuck. I want more, I want commitment, I want him to initiate more, I want him to take charge. I feel tired and think that I deserve to have him drooling over me all the time. And the funny thing is, now I have constant attention from men all over. A week ago I was feeling unsure and wondering what plans I would have for NYE and this week I have over 3 different invitations from guys who are begging for me to accompany them this new years. While my special guy is over there not jumping at the opportunity.

What am I doing wrong? What should I or shouldn't I be doing?

happygirl · 12/23/2015 1:27 pm

Thats so great that you have so many men around your :-)
i would definitely accept the invitation of some of the guys and didnt wait for your guy to appear
either he will feel that and maybe something great will happen, even though maybe not on NYE
but if you dont accept the other guy (if you feel like you would have a good time obviously) then its like a desperation, waiting and being attached to some exact result (your guy to be with you on NYE)

and when it comes to you wanting him to contact you, I would maybe be quiet for some time, enjoy your time, and if you are already talking and all seems good. i am sure he will soon contact you first

happygirl · 12/23/2015 2:29 pm

Sam, you put it very nicely!
I think Sam just nailed it :-)

Berryluv · 12/23/2015 4:15 pm

Thanks Sam, thanks happy.. I really just needed that confirmation to take a step back and focus on myself. Sometimes that can be challenging because I do like attention and to be the spotlight (giggles). Yes other guys are drooling but they still aren't eligible to my standards. But I will have fun, I guess I've always visualized kissing my love at midnight and being in his arms making new years resolutions together. I swear my mind sounds like a classic romance novel, and I love it.

But you guys are a major support. I try to keep the negativity at bay and you guys brought my vibration back up there.

barbidoll · 12/23/2015 5:17 pm

Sam wrote:
I think the only difference between your love and those other men is that you are attached to him. You certainly do deserve to have him drooling all over you but right now he can't do that because you're keeping the attention the lack of what you want to happen. I'd say take a step back and refocus on yourself. Do whatever on New Years that you think will be the most fun. He got that taste of you again when he saw you the other day, that was just a step in the process. It's all working out for you whether you can see it or not. For all you know, he may be spending his days thinking about you and what to do about the two of you, and it might just not be to the point where he's ready to take action yet. But that doesn't mean it's not right around the corner.

Yes I agree What I see is you WANT your love back while you are completely detached from the other men who are pursuing you so they are swarming like bees ABSOLUTELY focus on you enjoy the attention nothing beats a classic romance novel and he is just working through the mechanics of how he wants to start the process Sam is absolutely right he may be thinking about you as much as you of him worry not

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