It depends exactly where your fears are.. In what context are you releasing resistance?
What exactly is it that you are fighting in your mind about your situation?

So you're fearful he is over you perhaps? When you focus on the fact that you create deliberately, then other people can't really resist you.

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Shy wrote:

I need some good advice to attract a phonecall especially from my guy or to break NC because for months he has not contacted me. I've been visualising and RSng him too.

Hi Shy,

I don't mean to be rude here but I don't see the point in attracting a phone call or breaking NC.

If you're looking at all the months that has passed and feel a need to have him back, it could just make it worse.

Wouldn't it be more efficient to just keep visualizing and getting into the feelings of confidence, love, and peace, not to force anything, but to enjoy those feelings?

Wouldn't it be better to take your time being single to feel better, irregardless of whether he's here or not?

If you think and feel from the end goal of the love and happiness you seek, feeling those feelings now, wouldn't that help go from need to having (peace)? And if you believe you and him will get back together, isn't that belief enough?

Maybe he might send a letter or an email or a text, maybe you might meet up somewhere, or maybe you might even call him. But focusing on the how (like a phone call) tends to make us anxious and doubtful, so focus on something that feels better (like the end goal of actually being happy and feeling love). Everything else has a way of falling in place.

Eh, just my opinion anyway.
 

Thanks Roosevelt . Makes sense. Though I created this topic two months ago lol and I'm not focusing on phonecall now. As you suggested, I've been doing the same and following Neville teachings Now. I liked your success stories you mentioned on the forum and also it build my faith. Thanks a lot.