I don't reply much any more, but I'm leaving you 3 links that will take less than an hour altogether to listen to which I hope will help you: how to use your imagination, the secret of imagining, and mental diets, all recordings by Neville.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bKS_QIPet-k&t=90s

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk&t=9s

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KnPAsGiQyiI


You might not be able to change things overnight, but you can at least make a start.

I recommend living in the end. Neville will explain that. It works for me.

Thanks Cynthia,

I appreciate the help. I keep forgetting even when things look bad they can always change for the better. One more question do you have any tips on how to stay living in the end when you work with this person? I find working in the same space as my SP always impacts me in some form.

Also I asked about resistance because I read somewhere that right before the manifestation comes sometimes it seems the exact opposite is happening. And last night I had a dream we were at our wedding together so I was caught off gaurd.

Last edited by alex31 (10/09/2019 7:58 pm)

alex31 wrote:

Thanks Cynthia,

I appreciate the help. I keep forgetting even when things look bad they can always change for the better. One more question do you have any tips on how to stay living in the end when you work with this person? I find working in the same space as my SP always impacts me in some form.

Also I asked about resistance because I read somewhere that right before the manifestation comes sometimes it seems the exact opposite is happening. And last night I had a dream we were at our wedding together so I was caught off gaurd.

 
Living in the end is something you do in your imagination. You don't do any overt acts to try to outwardly manipulate a situation. You do it all in your mind and wait for the outside world to change around you.
If you work with the person, behave the way you would normally in that situation.
It would be very useful for you to read Neville's book, The Law and the Promise, because in addition to what Neville has to say, there are quite a few letters that people wrote to Neville telling him about their successes using his methods in various areas of life and exactly what they did. There is a letter from Mrs JE in chapter 3 in which she tells how she married the man she wanted whom she had met on a blind date. Even if marriage is not your goal, it is still useful to read what she did because after he contacted her and they began dating, she didn't know how he felt about her to begin with.

Letting go does not mean letting go of your desire or pretending you don't really want it. It means letting go of fears and doubts and worries.

Hi Cynthia, I see that you have manifested someone back from another country. (am I right? I am not sure it was you but I remember it took you quite a while) It is where my SP is right now. And things ended badly between us. 

I was feeling good lately but had the greatest idea to check his FB and saw that he moved back to his country. I listened to Nevile and I feel like I have 2 problems: I have a hard time thinking FROM it, instead of OF it. And my self belief of "I never get the guy I want" is so strong. I am still afraid, and insecure and anxious. I ve always been and I was wondering if you had any idea what I should do to stop feeling like this. I thought I let go until I saw he moved away. It crashed me. And I realized I was still too attached to him. 

I manifested my dream job (it literally came to me, I didn't apply, it was crazy).

But now I am hurt and can't seem to forget the past. I have many questions. I am trying to understand how the law works and why I can't seem to make it work for my SP (but I guess the answer is attachement). 

I used to do techniques but at some point I gave up and thought "it will come anyway", because it hurts to think about him. I am too focused on him not being here, and now that he is abroad I feel even more sad. 

Also I had a question, when we were talking, I used to visualise a lot and felt good about it (but he was taken back then), and I m thinking, could it be enough? Did I do enough visualisation, and him being away is for him to come back  free and happy? I think he left because of the bad breakup he had (I was involved and he cut me off)

Sorry I feel like my text is very deconstructed. Also, I am not a native English speaker. 

I watched Neville s videos and Veronica s and I make it work for other areas of my life. I also had a problem with psychics, they would tell me my SP would come back but for some reasons I didn't believe them, my thought of "I never get the guy I want" is so strong, I don't know how to get rid of it. but I finally stopped calling psychics so I am proud of that. 

I got him back in the past but he was never single and for some reason I had an excuse as to why we were not together but now he is single and the only thing I hear is "he never loved you". I am being hard on myself I know. 

Thanks for you help anyway! I needed to rant I guess. I kinda know where the problems are but I just can't seem to get over it. To let go. to feel happy and free myself. 

In the meantime I thought I would try to attract back a guy who rejected me, it s going well but now I am starting to feel stressed again, and I saw a friend of mine flirting with him and I got super anxious and all my work collapsed because I thought "omg it s happening again, I am not the chosen one" . I am laughing while writing this because I feel like I am in a Bridget jones movie haha. 

Thanks for reading me, and maybe giving me advices on my situation. 

have a beautiful week!