Barbara wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Thank you! I see what you mean, I do feel good about it, thinking about being with him makes me happy and not a wish to come type thing but a reality in the near future. I think I still tend to think "I have no idea how this will work" but I don't find it a chore at all really. I daydream and I have a 30 minute walk daily where I talk out loud about things we'll do and places we'll go and all of that... 
I think I'm also of an impatient nature... 

That's good that you do these things. What I can still think of is: did you accept the current situation? Or are you still trying to manifest from the state of resisting it? Also, what could be useful is to examine if you have any deep grounded doubts or resistance, or even fear about your desire. E.g. I realized that I was actually afraid of him coming back, afraid of getting hurt again.  
Or even try to 'identify' what you think he's thinking of you. Because if you think that 'Oh, he's certainly not interested in me', or 'He doesn't like me' etc., then it can also delay the manifestation. 

Thank you! That is what I have been doing lately. Stop seeing him on a pedestal, realise we are both completely equal, that there is no reason why he wouldn't want to be with me. He already is in my life although not yet as my boyfriend/husband so that makes it easier to accept the current situation so I'm ok there too. I worked through my doubts and resistance and I had some things I needed to work on and that I am currently doing (like for example joining a gym to be more pleased about my figure and things like that, all that can be improved upon is in the process of being improve upon!). I haven't yet been with him so there is no fear of being with him or getting hurt. I am extatic at the thought of being with him and find myself picturing us doing daily things all the time, or thinking how much he'd love something and all those things as if we already are a solid couple. The only thing I think that is remaining is my impatience at when will all of this happen not MAYBE or IF, but a solid when (as in the near future). I worked my hardest to get every little thing out of my way that could cause me to trip up.
 

Barbara wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Thank you! That is what I have been doing lately. Stop seeing him on a pedestal, realise we are both completely equal, that there is no reason why he wouldn't want to be with me. He already is in my life although not yet as my boyfriend/husband so that makes it easier to accept the current situation so I'm ok there too. I worked through my doubts and resistance and I had some things I needed to work on and that I am currently doing (like for example joining a gym to be more pleased about my figure and things like that, all that can be improved upon is in the process of being improve upon!). I haven't yet been with him so there is no fear of being with him or getting hurt. I am extatic at the thought of being with him and find myself picturing us doing daily things all the time, or thinking how much he'd love something and all those things as if we already are a solid couple. The only thing I think that is remaining is my impatience at when will all of this happen not MAYBE or IF, but a solid when (as in the near future). I worked my hardest to get every little thing out of my way that could cause me to trip up.
 

Well, maybe this is all I could say then, because if you really do all of these things and you genuinely feel good (just for the sake of feeling good, and not in order to get this person), then there's no reason for him not to come. Though, I would still say that maybe your impatience and the constant 'looking outside' can cause some delay. No judging here, I'm also guilty of it sometimes, lol :D Many times, what makes manifestations coming quicker, is when you get so busy with your life that you even forget about it, when you focus on other things, other goals etc.

I've not been with my SP yet, either, but we already have some history, with some hurt feelings that I had to work through. That's why I asked. However, every situation is different.

Maybe someone else has something to add here, other advices etc.

Hey, thanks, I am feeling good! And for my own sake as I did a LOT of self-love work too! Yeah, I guess I need to get rid of the impatience. He is in the US and I am in Europe but he is coming to Europe this August so I'm trying to manifest him asking me to join him there. Which would be amazing!

I am sure you'll attract your sp too! thank you
 

Barbara wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Hey, thanks, I am feeling good! And for my own sake as I did a LOT of self-love work too! Yeah, I guess I need to get rid of the impatience. He is in the US and I am in Europe but he is coming to Europe this August so I'm trying to manifest him asking me to join him there. Which would be amazing!

I am sure you'll attract your sp too! thank you
 

Good! Just consider your 'order' placed / done, and know that he'll ask you to join him in August. And thank you for you, too! (btw I'm also in Europe, so hey! )

So there isn't any issue because it's time sentsitive? Thanks and yay for a fellow European!

Barbara wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Barbara wrote:

Good! Just consider your 'order' placed / done, and know that he'll ask you to join him in August. And thank you for you, too! (btw I'm also in Europe, so hey! )

So there isn't any issue because it's time sentsitive? Thanks and yay for a fellow European!

What do you mean by 'time sensitive'?
 

Well because the event is in August. So there is a time frame related to it whereas just being with him for example has no time frame. 

Barbara wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Barbara wrote:

What do you mean by 'time sensitive'?
 

Well because the event is in August. So there is a time frame related to it whereas just being with him for example has no time frame. 

OK, I see. In this case then, what I would suggest is just to live in the end result (i.e. the relationship), and it will unfold as it should. What I realized is that we always want to control the 'how', although it's not our task. With this, I want to say that maybe to be in a relationship with this guy, this August event is not even necessary; it will unfold in another way, with another 'milestones'.
Another question has popped into my mind: you said that he's in the US. Aren't there any worries about this in you that can block the process? Any doubts that he would move here, or you to the US, or to even be in a long-distance relationship? Sorry for this question, it just came to my mind, as for me, it could be something that would block the process (even subconsciously).

I just thought it would be a great few days for us to have in Dublin really... 

He lives in California and I'd love to live there, been wanting that since I was about 7 years old lol! So I have no issues there. And I am ok with a long-distance relationship but I could spend some time with him and then see how to move there later on. Again no issues. I know how his place looks like, I know the neighborhood and all of that and if I could I'd be on a plane tonight!