I couldn’t think of a better title for this.   But I can understand why it’s difficult for people to live as it’s real and ignore current realty especially when it comes to a specific person

Whether you’re in contact with the person and it’s not how you want it to me.   Or you aren’t in contact with the person whether it’s them ignoring you, no contact,etc.   it can be hard to set your mind to it being how you imagined in your mind.    Things can be so perfect in your own world. But then when you get into the “real world”. And aren’t seeing what you want to see.  It’s hard to ignore the current reality

But the more and more that I think about it, what do you really have to lose?   What do you really have to lose to be “delusional” and think of things from how you want it to be?      I mean, what you’re doing now obviously isn’t working and you don’t have what you want.  So what does it really hurt to be creative and think how you want?

I’m saying this from my own experience right now    The girl I like and want to be with, has been ignoring me for almost 2 weeks over a misunderstanding.    At times I have done the usual, especially last week.  I was stressing, worrying, being fearful, etc   Has that helped at all?  Nope, I still don’t have contact.   Does it suck?  Yes.     But it made me realize, how I can change this situation in my mind and have a little fun with my imagination.    I can get rid of those negative, fearful, worry,etc thoughts I’m having and just replace it with the thoughts that make me happy    As I’m asking everyone else, what do I have to lose?  Doing what I’ve been doing wasn’t helping and it was making me feel miserable and starting to affect other areas of my life

So not only focusing on the person(I notice when you’re really happy, or not even happy, but confident about manifesting your desire, you don’t reslly have to force thinking about it, it comes natural) but focusing on myself will not only create the reality I want with the person.  But I’ll be a lot happier

I understand not everything Cynthia, Sanshi,etc say registers with everyone and some people have different things that work for them.  But let’s be honest, stressing, worrying,being fearful,etc isn’t not only hurtful for manifesting your specific person, but it’s not good for any area