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Hello Lovely people!
I was introduced to the LOA many years ago through The secret.
I can visualize easily i can script but there is an important element which is the βbelieveβ
For example i took a test, i can visualize my passing mark and i can live in the end result, engaging my emotions to make the experience as real as possible. But i often get that sinking feeling of doubt unbelieve. Maybe i dont deserve it.
You get my point?
How do i make myself believe that my desires can easily happen to me, and i deserve them
How do i deal with doubt?
Please help
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Living in the end has nothing to do with emotion. It's feeling - the feeling of conviction that it is already a done deal. You need to stay there. You don't need to think about it all the time of course, but every time the topic you are working on, you have to come from the end. And doubts are a clear sign that you aren't in the state, because how can you doubt what you already have? Every time you doubt or observe yourself not coming from the state (when you think about how long it will take you aren't in the state, when you wonder how it will come you aren't in the state and so on) get back into it as quickly as possible. Don't wait until you have to. How to get into the state? How would it feel like if it were true? The feeling that comes up is the one you want to immerse yourself in, and stay true to as much as possible. After getting into the feeling of it easier, I prefer to use the phrase "How does it feel now that it is true?". That doesn't imply that it isn't true yet. If a scene helps you to get into that feeling, go for it.
You can't make yourself believe anything. Your beliefs are always a match to what you feel to be true. Change what you feel to be true and your beliefs change automatically and without any effort on your part. And doubt isn't an issue from the state of the wish fulfilled. When you catch yourself doubting, be greatful for the hint that you lost the state and get back into it.
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Sanshi wrote:
Living in the end has nothing to do with emotion. It's feeling - the feeling of conviction that it is already a done deal. You need to stay there. You don't need to think about it all the time of course, but every time the topic you are working on, you have to come from the end. And doubts are a clear sign that you aren't in the state, because how can you doubt what you already have? Every time you doubt or observe yourself not coming from the state (when you think about how long it will take you aren't in the state, when you wonder how it will come you aren't in the state and so on) get back into it as quickly as possible. Don't wait until you have to. How to get into the state? How would it feel like if it were true? The feeling that comes up is the one you want to immerse yourself in, and stay true to as much as possible. After getting into the feeling of it easier, I prefer to use the phrase "How does it feel now that it is true?". That doesn't imply that it isn't true yet. If a scene helps you to get into that feeling, go for it.
You can't make yourself believe anything. Your beliefs are always a match to what you feel to be true. Change what you feel to be true and your beliefs change automatically and without any effort on your part. And doubt isn't an issue from the state of the wish fulfilled. When you catch yourself doubting, be greatful for the hint that you lost the state and get back into it.
I was thinking about this topic just this morning. Any βbigβ things that I have manifested in my life I really havenβt worked that hard to manifest. For some reason I just knew they would happen and has zero doubt. I guess the zero doubt part is really the main part of living in the end result. I always thought it meant aligning your life in a way that itβs similar to how things would be if you had what you wanted. (Hope that makes sense.)
I will struggle with the doubt part for some things, especially with attracting my specific person back, but I have attracted jobs, trips and pretty cool life experiences by just *knowing* they were going happen without a doubt.