Me again. I hope I don't clog this forum with too much carry on lol! I simply want for all of you to succeed in manifesting your desires- whatever they may be. I absolutely love you,  wonderful, beautiful souls. How lucky are we to know each other? 💜

I want to talk about the absence of what you want. And how focussing on it NOT being here will just keep it absent in your life. I know we say it all the time here, but really think about this. LOA works 24/7. For everyone. Yes? That's just how we roll! And we are SO SO lucky to be aware. It's like we have the cheat sheet or something! We are ahead of the pack! Now.. If you want to bring someone back into your life, you simply cannot focus on the lack of them. You can't be miserable.. Or even remotely dissatisfied because they aren't right next to you. You CAN'T! Hands up who here is even SLIGHTLY  guilty of doing that? 🙋 That's a fail! 🙈

But it's also no biggie. Remember, in the world of LOA, you never get it wrong. And it's never, ever the end. We literally have forever to create our wildest dreams! And we can mess it up and practice and hone our skills as much as we please. I want everyone to focus on the fact that things are ALWAYS working out perfectly. If you let that be your mantra, life will charm you!

I'm delighted to see all the success on this forum. Some of us have been able to break that habit of living in a state of lack. For anyone who is familiar with Abraham's EGS, feelings of sadness and absence are a low vibe, and simply cannot bring you the guy or girl. From a low vibe, it's difficult to act "as if" because from that perspective you literally do not have access to the nice thoughts! Down there, things are irritating and difficult and not at all pleasing. BUT, if you can work your way up that scale, LOA will actually do some work for you and bring you thoughts and corresponding circumstances to automatically make you feel better. So you do a little vibrational work through focus wheels or segment intending or meditation etc, and then LOA will match you up with something cool to reward your higher vibe!

I believe it's when you arrive at hope on the EGS that things begin to truly shift. When you are hopeful, it becomes easier to imagine your amazing relationship. And then LOA gifts you a bunch of things that match your hopeful state.

When you're missing your love, you want to make this all about them. You ask why they don't call, how dare they be so cold! But you have to understand it isn't actually about them AT ALL.  It's about you focusing on their absence!  Everything, absolutely EVERYTHING in your physical reality right now is responding to how you feel, and the thoughts you are sending out. So if you are missing your love, you're literally telling them vibrationally to stay away from you. They could be your perfect mate, but they cannot enter into your experience! And it is purely because you are focused on their absence.

The reason people tell you to start appreciating things in your life, is because the vibration of appreciation is really high. And often it is easier to train yourself into a higher vibe through appreciation of food, weather, nature, photos, friends, the cat, you-name-it... There is less resistance sometimes in appreciating stuff around you, than there is in acting "as if" you are having a wow of a time with your love! And the result is the same- that shift in your vibration then creates you a reality that is much more pleasing!

No matter how you get there, through appreciation, meditation, or acting as if, the goal is to eliminate that sensation of absence. We can ALL improve on that! 💜😘