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So you have someone in your life that is ignoring you. Or blocking you. Or not playing ball. You want things to go a particular way, and you've realised that no matter what you try you can't control the other person. So what CAN you do?
You can control YOU. Your thoughts, your feelings, and your vibration. You can control the way that YOU see the situation. And it will ABSOLUTELY change the way the other person feels about you. It takes time, it takes commitment and it takes focus. But it works.
Perhaps you have a man or woman you want back in your life.. But as it stands, they have turned your life upside down. Maybe you're currently not talking. There are steps you can take to get things back on track.
First, you have to see things differently. You have been gifted this new way of living that will become the most MAGICAL path you've ever taken. This rascal has awakened you to a new way of experiencing life, and they are not budging until they WRESTLE you into happiness! If they came back right now, you still won't have learnt how to deliberately hold yourself in happiness and joy. If you learn this lesson now, you will adore your relationship all the more, in your newfound love for YOURSELF. And your knowledge that NOTHING can rock you. If you can practice this state of being all by yourself, independently from ANYBODY, you will have discovered how to direct yourself steadily and quickly from despair to joy. What a lesson to learn. You should be grateful that someone in your life is allowing you the space to learn this now.
Say yes to the challenge.
Forgive the past. Delete it. It absolutely, categorically is irrelevant. All of it.
See your rascal in all of their perfection. As you WANT them to be. As you DREAM they could be!
Visualise an interaction with them, where they are absolutely adoring you.
Hear everything you've always wanted to hear them say.
Know that this will unfold shortly in your physical reality, and revel in the beauty and the fabulousness of that!
Do this with any relationship you wish to enhance, or completely change. Believe that it works. Because it DOES work. 100% ππ
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Thanks cherish! Right now my rascals are my friends. My two best friends currently do not like my boyfriend and if we were to get back together they would not approve. This is part of my resistance to my manifestation with him. Part of me is worried what others will think. I wish my friends loved him too.
I find it much easier to imagine romantic scenes with him than friendly happy supportive scenes with my friends
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Thank you Cherish Awesomeness again
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Very helpful cutie!I'm going like read this dailyπ
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Another beautiful post...You discussed the subject in a way all of us will surely understand. You nailed it again Cherished!
Thank you for always inspiring us with your post.
Love lots ππ
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Thank you Cherished. Very nice post.Β
What if you see him in love with someone else, see him in a happy serious relationship and see him doing things for the other person?
I am afraid of an engagement ... or the fact that he has given so many things there, share many things and experiences and his feelings about the other person.Β
What should I do? How can I get over this?
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Absolutely love this!!! Thanks Cherished!!π
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Thanks for this Cherished, it's great. YES to the challengeΒ :Β ) Β
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Wow I think this possibly could be the most beneficial lesson we all need to realise. It's so true I'm actually smiling to myself here reading it.
Once again a truely inspiring message from the angel that is Cherished!!
Well said sweetheart xxx
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Milk&Honey wrote:
Thank you Cherished. Very nice post.Β
What if you see him in love with someone else, see him in a happy serious relationship and see him doing things for the other person?
I am afraid of an engagement ... or the fact that he has given so many things there, share many things and experiences and his feelings about the other person.Β
What should I do? How can I get over this?
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Well, this is YOUR reality. So you have to see what you want to see, and let that be your truth. When you allow that preferred "story" to permeate the ethers, it will begin to play out in your physical reality just as you saw it. Or even better π