fizzy wrote:

How do you feel about yourself? Do you generally feel unworthy and undeserving, that other people are more worthy of getting what you want than you are? This is what jumped out at me when reading your question.

 
Tbh yeah i do feel that way. A lot of childhood stuff has contributed to that but I am making effort to slowly heal that. One thing in my head that I always am sad about is never being with someone I want. I see other people falling in love and getting together with that person but for me its always a chase...almost like i can never really want what I wish for especially with guys. Guys very easily call me sister or friendzone or start treating me as a guy cause "i can handle it." I am usually very easy going with guys because I always felt like that will make people feel at ease and open up to me and trust and tbh i got all that....many guys do trust me and are good friends with me but that never develops into anything more like romance/love. I am grateful for these friendships but if i like one of the guys then it gets hard cause they never see me that way. 

I know I am say never a lot lol which goes against the whole concept of LOA.... do you have any advice how to heal this or change this way of thinking? Any insight you can offer can help! thanks so much!! 

fizzy wrote:

ammrlovesme wrote:

 Tbh yeah i do feel that way. A lot of childhood stuff has contributed to that but I am making effort to slowly heal that. One thing in my head that I always am sad about is never being with someone I want. I see other people falling in love and getting together with that person but for me its always a chase...almost like i can never really want what I wish for especially with guys. Guys very easily call me sister or friendzone or start treating me as a guy cause "i can handle it." I am usually very easy going with guys because I always felt like that will make people feel at ease and open up to me and trust and tbh i got all that....many guys do trust me and are good friends with me but that never develops into anything more like romance/love. I am grateful for these friendships but if i like one of the guys then it gets hard cause they never see me that way. 

I know I am say never a lot lol which goes against the whole concept of LOA.... do you have any advice how to heal this or change this way of thinking? Any insight you can offer can help! thanks so much!! 

It sounds like you have a belief that you aren’t good enough to have what you want. You create these partial manifestations of friendships, but then this belief blocks you from manifesting the full relationship. So I would suggest working on your self esteem/self confidence. You need to get to the point of knowing you can have what you want. Also, I’d say start to (or continue to) study Neville so that you have no doubts about creating reality.

Thank you so much! Yes I do know about Neville and I watch some youtube videos on his teachings but maybe I should start reading the books. Thank you for the help!