This is pondersome. But maybe it would help to look at the manner in which the other ones came back. Obviously they didn’t come back to stay, or you’d still be with them, so what was the nature of the final split? Because basically, we’re only really creating states of being, and we’re always creating whether we know about LOA or not. So before, you were by default creating a relationship-breakup-sadness-makeup cycle, and perhaps that became familiar, so it was easy to keep doing that. Now, you’re conscious of your creations, so you want something new, the ONE, the end of that cycle. But this is a new state of being, which might take a little practice to live into. This state of being doesn’t create breakup-makeup cycles.

That’s actually really encouraging, if you think about it. You are currently NOT manifesting a temporary makeup like before. You’re in the process of aligning to the ONE, which can’t exist in that old state of being. The fact that he hasn’t yet returned might turn out to be a good thing after all.

Just my theory, but hope it makes sense.

It does make sense. I think what you might be dealing with is the bridge of events. If you’ve been living in the wish fulfilled and are truly comfortable and happy on your own, then it’s only natural that your lover will return.

To use my own example, it turns out the third party has been out of the picture for a couple of months now. But if my husband had immediately come home as soon as that happened, it wouldn’t have worked. There wouldn’t have been enough space between him being in that state and being in a state of committed to me. He had to come to terms with some things for himself before he could bring himself to connect with me.

So, there are probably things happening for you as well that you’re not aware of, all leading to your wish fulfilled. The key is to deny the evidence of your senses. It might look like he’s not with you, but you might have already manifested this without knowing it.