Cottoncandy wrote:

Hi lovelies,

I just recently posted that I received a text from my love, but I was a bit sad that he didn’t seem too keen. I am grateful that we are now in contact again, however I feel low and a little hopeless, I don’t know why things are weird and I’m not sure if we can go back to the way we used to. I tried journaling like thesilverlining recommended. I could find reasons why he would still want me, I believe them. But I can’t help but feeling that he’s too prideful to pursue me again. Does anyone have any advice to get out of this state? Or maybe a success story to share? I believe that one of the reasons I’m feeling this way is because he is far away. Another thing is that I feel like I can’t find the right words to converse with him, I don’t wanna seem too eager, but I re-read my text and I was a bit mean, like I acted like we’re strangers.

Thank you so much for reading this and good luck to everyone!!!

You can go back to how things used to be. Can you remember what it was like with him back then? If you have the ability to imagine/remember that, that means you have the ability to experience that in reality again. All imagined scenes and memories (which are no different than imagined scenes) are real somewhere in consciousness. Happening right now.

About him being too prideful — he only reflects back to you what YOU believe to be true about him. If you don’t want him to be too prideful to pursue you, don’t believe/perceive him to be that way. See him as you want him to be regardless of what he is showing you right now. He cannot create in your reality. Only you can.

Live in the end of the reality you desire. Just because you are back in contact now, it does not mean that your desired end result has fully manifested yet. You do not have to settle for how things are now as if this is how your desire manifested and nothing can be changed. If you can imagine what you want, that is an optional reality that you can fully manifest and experience.

Cottoncandy wrote:

Thank you so much fizzy, I needed that I hope I can get out of this state soon.

I’m glad it helped!