Honestly, just now  I was down for maybe 30 minutes.. and then realized.. I manifested ALL of this... I manifested her dating/talking to someone else...         it makes me realize how powerful I am... HE is NOT who she really wants, it's ME... but I'm not in the right vibration to have her right now, so she's giving him a try.             

A couple of positives... the first time she talked to someone, when we brokeup.. she wanted NO contact with me.. but now she wants to stay in contact.. so I manifested a friendship, now I just have to use my power to manifest more.     I can use this time to gain her trust even more, and get to know her more... Honestly it's not the worse thing in the world...   I'll STILL get my desire in having her back, for all I know.. this is the way the universe wanted it to happen...

my question is. should I say things to myself like "They won't workout'  or completely ignore it?