djspeed21 wrote:

Well this one is more of a punch to the gut than anything else. 

Today my SP texted me saying that she was never attracted to me & never will be & then blocked my number & blocked me from all social media. The social media thing I could care less about, but telling me that she was never attracted to me stung. Doesn't help that we also work together. 

It’s understandable that this was very hurtful to you. But, this doesn’t change anything when it comes to you being able to attract her back. All is possible.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

djspeed21 wrote:

Well this one is more of a punch to the gut than anything else. 

Today my SP texted me saying that she was never attracted to me & never will be & then blocked my number & blocked me from all social media. The social media thing I could care less about, but telling me that she was never attracted to me stung. Doesn't help that we also work together. 

What, just out of the blue? Was that in response to a message or contact from you?

It's been a weird week... Literally last week Sunday we spent the day together & everything was amazing. We didn't want to leave each other's sides & even tried to plan to hang out the following day, which unfortunately ended up falling through. As the week went on, we saw each other at work & things were alright. I ended up hurting myself at work on Wednesday & she even looked out for me, making sure I could make it home alright. That's when things turned. Thursday because of my injury I didn't go in. Was back in Saturday & she was very distant with me. I Thanked her again for looking out for me & she responded fine. Later that night she message me saying that she only views me as a friend & asked if we were on the same page. I didn't respond due to not feeling well from my injury. Then today I received another text saying that because I didn't respond, the silence gave her the answer she needed. That she was never into me & never will be into me, that I'm obsessive (though I rarely make contact with her at work because we are in different departments), & yeah...

RoxyG wrote:

I don't mean this in a rude way (English is not my first language, my choice of word is limited) but how can people say «it doesn't change anything»?  I know that people say eveything is possible but I have been doing EXACTLY what Veronica says for months now and nothing has changed.  So it must be very very hard not to fall to pieces when the SP tells you something like that!! How can it not change anything?

Because every possibilty already exists. The possibility you desire doesn’t just stop existing because something bad happens. It never stops existing. I understand things are hurtful and I never said it’s wrong to get upset or hurt over something, BUT if you want to succeed, you must always look at the bigger picture.

If you have had no success, then it is always because of a flaw in how you have been applying it. The LOA is always working. You can’t shut it off.

Here is valuable advice from another post from Cynthia:

Forget everything else you've heard or read and read and/or listen to Neville Goddard until you actually believe what he's saying about imagination creating reality and about 'living in the end of the wish fulfilled', and then apply it and keep applying it. Be patient and persistent. He will tell you all you need to know. It doesn't need to be difficult, it doesn't need to take a long time, you don't need all sorts of techniques or self love or any of the other things that are so commonly promoted.  Below is a link to his recording of the Secret of Imagining, which takes less than 17 minutes to listen to. Do yourself a favour and listen to it as an introduction to his teachings about conscious creation and then do more studying from there. There is far more to this than getting some 'ex' back. It's about creating all aspects of the life you want to have..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YccI-t1yojk
 

Last edited by fizzy (5/31/2018 7:44 am)

Ignore them. Treat them as zero. Don't go looking to be the knight in shining armour on your white charger rescuing the damsel in distress. It could open up a can of worms. The relationship will more than likely end anyway if it starts in the first place. Most women are wise enough to see through a control freak and chuck them. Please don't focus on this bloke at the expense of your own life. You could perhaps try the version of rubbing out Cait talks about elsewhere on this forum.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Also did you look at the Neville stuff Fizzy and Cynthia suggested? What are your thoughts?

Yuppers I did watch that video & it's something I've been working on the last few months! The one thing I still find challenging sometimes is the whole "Living in the end" Sometimes I have it, but then other times the mind shifts back into a state of lack or a state of "when I get them" (same thing?) Recently I've been doing Revision meditation for our talk & honestly I feel at peace with it all.

But I totally get what you mean, don't put any energy into it & he won't have anymore power. Guess I was flustered because this guy has been on again, off again for the past couple years for my SP. And after hearing something like that, it hit a cord inside of me. Thank you for the advice!