So I am aware that everone is you pushed out, and people are just mirroring back your thoughts, feelings and beliefs, which I agree with because I can literally sense mood changes in people according to how I am feeling about myself and about them, but at the moment my boyfriend and I are long distance so I’m getting a little discouraged.

  I have a bipolar boyfriend which at the moment is an ex, but I’m just ignoring that fact lol, anyway, recently I learn law of attraction and everything kind of started to turn around for the better in our relationship and I wasn’t seeing mood swings in him like before, or if he was having them they weren’t at all directed towards me. We are in the process of moving to California so we are saving up money by living with our parents temporarily so for about 2 months we’ve been in a long distance relationship but we have been able to fly to see each other and everything was going fine, I was actually really proud that we were having no issues at all with the long distance and we were able to just trust and love each other from afar. That is until I lost my phone.... I lost my phone and someone else had gotten ahold of it and I immediately started thinking the worst that someone was going to call him and say something horrible thinking it was funny because his name in my phone is ‘husband’ I tried to talk myself out of this nervous feeling but I just couldn’t get passed it. I messaged him over Facebook and told him what was going on and that I ordered a new phone. I told the company to shut my old phone off which they said they did but it turns out they didn’t. So my boyfriend was trying to call my old phone and then said he received a call from it and kept trying to call it, I don’t think they ever answered but I don’t know. I called the company back to shut my phone off and they did this time. Well that made me sound suspicious I guess and he immediately started saying I was shady which in turn made me even more nervous and he broke up with me the next day.

  I talked to him on the phone and I could tell by the things he was saying that he was definitely triggered and in an episode and I’m sure I made it worse with the things I was saying because I didn’t know if anything weird had been said to him or if he was just jumping to conclusions, but I was definitely nervous and probably sounded suspicious. He ended up thinking I had left my phone at some guys house which is exactly what I had been worried about. I feel horrible about the situation. I have never cheated or done anything that could even be considered cheating and I never would but I let my fears get to me and dug myself into this mess. He has blocked my from everything and I’m just annoyed with myself and the situation. Any advice on manifesting my boyfriend back? I know he loves me but does anyone have advice on getting him to realize that I am a completely loyal girlfriend and he’s overreacting? Even sharing a success story or something would be much appreciated!

Last edited by Shelly (5/11/2018 2:29 am)