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Another question- at what point should I consider contact? A letter or email or call? Or is it truly to surrender completely and take no actual action at all.
I'm looking forward to writing my success story one day. I know he will be back.
I can feel it. The last time I felt like this he asked to meet. I told my friends he was coming back and they thought I was crazy. But he did.
And although things didn't work out at the end of last year when he was back, I think we both weren't ready. Tensions were really high for a number of legal reasons.
I'm excited for his return!!!
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Berry wrote:
Another question- at what point should I consider contact? A letter or email or call? Or is it truly to surrender completely and take no actual action at all.
I'm looking forward to writing my success story one day. I know he will be back.
I can feel it. The last time I felt like this he asked to meet. I told my friends he was coming back and they thought I was crazy. But he did.
And although things didn't work out at the end of last year when he was back, I think we both weren't ready. Tensions were really high for a number of legal reasons.
I'm excited for his return!!!
Don’t worry about action. Just live in the wish fulfilled. If what you desire is already yours, why think about steps to take to get it?
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If my wish was fulfilled though, I would be talking and communicating with him as he'd be my partner.
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If my wish was fulfilled though, I would be talking and communicating with him as he'd be my partner.
Yes but what you are doing is trying to make things happen through physical action and that never works. Because inside, you are still the same. The outside world reflects who you are on the inside. You have to feel that what you want is yours now, and if you are persistent, the outside will catch up and the relationship will manifest. It’s always an inside job.
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Thanks Fizzy
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My ex fiancé and I broke up at the end of 2016. I found out about loa in April 2017, I've tried so many techniques to get him back. I was blocked at the time and managed to manifest an unblock and meet ups at the end of 2017.
Whilst I thought things were going well, he said he wanted to date someone else he'd been talking to. I have no idea if they are together officially but they have been seen out once.
Anyway when he told me about dating someone I became very hurt and reacted badly and now I'm blocked again. It's been a few months. I'm at a Loss of what to do as I've tried all of these techniques.
I don't know if he hates me or loves me. I have no idea whatsoever. I know if I was to reach out he would ignore me. Also to add he has narciccistic tendencies.
When we did meet up though things were perfect and I'd love to recapture what we had and what was building up again. I'm gutted I've gone and got myself blocked again.
I don't know what to do.
I've tried praying recently too but no luck or even signs.
Plz help
The universe doesn't know the difference between good or bad, which is either a blessing or a curse depending on how you look at it.
Maybe with the other exes, you didn't feel that you had much to lose? You had the belief you'd be with them, so they came back.
With your person, you mentioned so many good things about him. Do you feel you have more to lose with him?
Take some time away from the techniques and focus on yourself. You could be nursing some limiting beliefs with relationships, I'm basing this on what you said about every relationship you manifested back into your life went wrong. If I am wrong, I am sorry.
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Hi I've only ever had 1 relationship with him, I'm not sure if maybe you confused me with someone else. Thank you though.
I'm trying to think positively about him all day, if I think of him I just say "I love you too" in my head,
He's a sweetheart and I adore him.
I will not accept us not working out, we WILL. If not now, when the time is right
I'm feeling as if we are at peace with other with no hard feelings. Then I will work on feeling in immense love.
I'll update you all.
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