Berry wrote:

My ex fiancé and I broke up at the end of 2016. I found out about loa in April 2017, I've tried so many techniques to get him back. I was blocked at the time and managed to manifest an unblock and meet ups at the end of 2017.
Whilst I thought things were going well, he said he wanted to date someone else he'd been talking to. I have no idea if they are together officially but they have been seen out once.
Anyway when he told me about dating someone I became very hurt and reacted badly and now I'm blocked again. It's been a few months. I'm at a Loss of what to do as I've tried all of these techniques.
I don't know if he hates me or loves me. I have no idea whatsoever. I know if I was to reach out he would ignore me. Also to add he has narciccistic tendencies.

When we did meet up though things were perfect and I'd love to recapture what we had and what was building up again. I'm gutted I've gone and got myself blocked again.

I don't know what to do.

I've tried praying recently too but no luck or even signs.

Plz help

Go back and read the good advice you were given not that long ago in one of your previous posts where you asked more or less the same questions.
 

I have used the techniques and really believed in them but nothing. I am still blocked. What next?

For a year I've been working on myself before posting on here.
I have changed significantly for the better. I have focused on positivity and sending love out to everybody, forgiveness. But it comes to a point where you think well what now? Maybe I shouldn't convince myself that I WILL get him back. I seem to be missing something and I don't know what it is.

Berry wrote:

For a year I've been working on myself before posting on here.
I have changed significantly for the better. I have focused on positivity and sending love out to everybody, forgiveness. But it comes to a point where you think well what now? Maybe I shouldn't convince myself that I WILL get him back. I seem to be missing something and I don't know what it is.

I was referring to the story you are telling yourself (and us), not to your growth in general. It always comes down to what you believe. And as long as you tell the breakup story, you don't believe in a reality that could be different. In a scenario in which you know that it's a done deal, why would you think about the breakup? You wouldn't. You were way too busy with thinking about all the great stuff you know it's on its way.

You could write him virtual letters every day. I do that and it feels good and makes ne feel connected and it is easier to visualize. I also make a vision book with future goals or dreams for me. Many of them include my special person. I find that a good way to visualize too. Looking into the book once a day.

And self love every day is also important I'd say. So don't stop with thatt either.

And don't think about when this or that might happen.
You already did well, so you can do again.

I send the best of the positive vibes and energy to you.
You can do it.